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i want my mom and i to be like best friends but she only wants to spend time with her boyfriend and we barely talk and when we talk she gets mad at me. how can i get my mom to show me that she loves me and spend time with me?
my mom is not those kind of moms that u can talk to. she is different. it sucks having a mom thats only 31 because she spends time with her friends. wen she gets mad at me its becasue she thinks im dumb and that i have no common sense but i do. and she says that she wants to spend more time with my cousin so they can BOND and that makes me more sad that she doesnt want to spend time with me. =`(
and y cant she be happy without a boyfriend? all the time i feel like she doesnt want me and that im a mistake
i really want her to be a part of my life right now cuz wen im all grown up she might not appear in my life that much

2006-08-31 11:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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First of all you are not a mistake and do not think that way. Maybe you should write her a letter and leave it on her bed. Tell her exactly what you said in your question. You seem like an intelligent caring little girl who anybody would love. It is your mother who is making the mistake for being foolish and not wanted to have a great relationship with a sweet girl.

2006-08-31 11:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by ALBPACE 4 · 0 0

Tell your mom that the clock is ticking and you would love to just talk with her,My mother is dead and even though I have good memories of her( which is comforting) I can assure your mother you cannot hug a memory.I get the impression she had children at a young age and is trying to get back the part of her youth she feels she missed out on.Show your mother this Q&A page or read it to her and ask her what she would do if it were her daughter.Try keep the lines of communication open.Your mother loves you but she doesn't realize how much you need her right now.Good luck

2006-08-31 20:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by gussie 7 · 0 0

don't think your mother doesnt care about you; maybe she is having not such a good time in her life, I dont know how old you are but since you came here and wrote, you should let her know how you feel, take some money of your allowance and buy a card for her with a flower, and put it next to her bed; and at the end of your letter let her know that no matter what, you love her; 'cause very deep inside you really do, thats why u are worried; keep going you are a really smart girl.

2006-08-31 19:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by la_femme0103 2 · 0 0

just leave a copy o this e-mail around where she will find it. even if she gets mad at first, no mother could walk away and not think about it.

2006-08-31 18:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila H 1 · 1 0

ask your mom if she loves you if she yes tell her how you feel talk to your mom sort out your feelings tell your mom you feel like she doesn't care about you buy ben and jerrys and tons of movies and tak to her first and then chill out and bond to gether

2006-08-31 19:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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