My husband is going to open his own bussiness in LA. Once he is settled My son and I are to move down there with him. I am hesitant on going, but I dont want to regret makeing the decision of not going. I feel that if I do go and nothing is working out I can always move back to where I am at now. My imediate family is where i am now and I will be moveing 8 hours away from them. I have never moved away from them. My husbands family is in LA he has been away from them for over 7 years. I cant tell my family that I might be moveing to LA because they will tell me I am makeing a mistake. Am I makeing a mistake? Should I move to LA with my husband? We have been haveing problems in our mairrage and once conciderd seperating. things are getting better though.
2006-08-31 11:41:50 · 11 answers · asked by fleur_loser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
8 hours is far for my parents cause they think everyone should stay near them or come to them,and I would probably have to drive to see them.
2006-08-31 11:49:28 · update #1
My son will be a year and a half, he is going to quit his job for this.
2006-08-31 11:50:32 · update #2
i think you should stay with your parents until he gets everything in order then you can move with him in LA your married living with him his mom brother and who ever else doesn't make any sense go when he can put you and your child in your own home where you can be comfortable
2006-08-31 11:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by jit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I lived in an position of residing above the bar that my moms and dads owned from even as i change into 4 until eventually i change into 6. Then I moved some miles away and my dad worked on a farm. Then we moved back about a million a million/2 years later. And stayed until eventually i change into 10. i do not precisely undergo in recommendations why we moved back.
2016-10-15 22:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband and child are your priorities now, not your parents. It's time to cut the umbilical cord and live YOUR life. Who knows, this could be a great thing for your marriage. It's worth a try. How would you feel if the situation were reversed?
2006-08-31 14:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question seems to me whether you want to stay together or separate. If you want to truly work things out you should move with him and try together. If it doesn't work out you can always move back. On the other hand if this is a way for you to get out of your marriage then take it and run. I don't know all the details of you almost separating, but if your safe and if it was me I would give your marriage another shot. Good Luck to you.
2006-08-31 11:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by stephaniea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i definitely think your place is with your husband . it could be a plus for your marriage , the bible says you are to leave your mother & father when you marry & perhaps youall will grow closer & form a deeper bond in your marriage & i'm sure you must want this for your marriage . i'm sure you don't want to be alone with a child to raise , you can't begin to know what all heartaches that would bring into your life .you may even find you truly like it & it would give your family a place to visit . try & think positive thoughts . get in the word & see what god has to say about it & i'm sure you will change your mind & it will all become clear to you. may god bless you
2006-08-31 12:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by joyous believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go and try it and if it does not work out you could always move back. You could get out there and love it. Your husbands business could do real well and you could afford a plane ticket to go see your family quite a bit. Hope everything works out. I would be scared to leave my family to. But your husband is also your family. I would think about it though.
2006-08-31 11:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy N 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you and your husband have savings to fall back on, if his own business is not financially successful?
Going off the information you've given, I'd say go to LA.
It does have redeeming qualities.
2006-08-31 11:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh.. Yall Should Move.. But U and Him Should Talk About it together
2006-08-31 11:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband how you feel. Then hire yourself a good divorce lawyer!!
2006-08-31 11:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 hours isnt far
2006-08-31 11:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋