We have been together for over 2 yrs. We have been drifting and neither of us wants to break up. What are some good ways to save us before it is too late?
2006-08-31 11:27:25 · 19 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get back to enjoying some of the things that you used to enjoy doing together. Rewind the tape and have some fun. Or take the plunge and go out and do some extreme things that you would not usually do. You'll find that you will laugh your head off and enjoy sampling new things. Communicate. Quite often people just stop communicating openly and honestly. They forget to let each other know how important the other is to them, and start taking their love for granted. Best of luck to you and I hope that you are able to rejuvienate your relationship.
2006-08-31 11:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real answer is why are you drifting away? You cant just go to a movie or something and it's all going to be saved....there's an underlying problem that is either because love is not there or there is resentment being build up because somebody is not happy. You need to talk it out and tell each other how you really feel....if you don't, then it's just a matter of time before 1 of you does something to end the relationship.....I've been there before.
2006-08-31 11:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Alex S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your daily work aside and set some time to go out somewhere nice. Even if it's just renting a movie and hangin' out at home. If you guys don't want to break up with each other then this is a good thing.
2006-08-31 11:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kit Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there. Take a break for about a week. Then you realize how much you love them and miss them. It happened with me. We took a break after about 2.5 years for 4 days. We missed each other so much we got back together and its been great ever since.
2006-08-31 11:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i dont' mean to laugh but my best friend just went threw this! and i got to help them
here is what i told them!
go to coping.org
pull up the Tools for personal growth...
and do the thing together
not only will you learn alot about each other you will also learn alot about yourself!
They are still together and are getting married next year!
they said it helped!
i guess it would be worth a shot for anyone with any realationship
i am now currently doing this with my mom
best of all its FREE
Good luck
Mad luv
2006-08-31 11:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to recreat the day you to fell in love with each other, look back at the past two years
also maybe a week a part from each other would help,
2006-08-31 11:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by its me and u are u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to do the things you enjoyed together. Take a class together. If you sign up for beliefnet, they have partner sites thet will give tips as well. Hope this helps.
2006-08-31 11:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk clear or call on him for the relationship between you, do you have the same interesting or hobbies or something like that , to know widely i mean not you and him but others and try attending the activities of school or society. you would find that you can talk much than before. good luck!
2006-08-31 12:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by kaku j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION!! talk to him and ask what it is that is keeping you apart.. also make time for each other go on dates.. sometimes life takes control and you lose each other everything else becomes more important .. so think back to when you first started dating and try to do the little things that make him smile..
2006-08-31 11:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a nice night out together. Go somewhere that you've both really wanted to go and have a romantic evening with no expense spared.
2006-08-31 11:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋