2006-08-31 11:19:59 · 72 answers · asked by pakistani_spack 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
cause it was just as much your stupid fault...
2006-08-31 11:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you on a level.
yes you both did it but i know how girls can be with lying about being on the pill, or pop holes in the condoms.
Unfortunataly most girls in the world dont take into consideration that there messing everyones life up , and it can all be fixed with a simple abortion.
The fact is most girls keep the baby to spite the guy.
If i was a girl and the father hated me and didnt want a kid, i would get an abortion. Why would i want to have some guys baby that doesnt want it.
The girls also dont know the full facts of abortion they just think there killing a baby. Which is not true, it doesnt develop any feelings, eyes, feet, hands, etc in the first 8 weeks.
2006-08-31 15:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the old saying 'takes two to tango"? If you had sex with her then it is just as much YOUR fault as it is hers since a baby is made from half of the fathers genes (sperm) and half of the mother's genes (egg).
If you assumed that she was on birth control....you know what they say about assuming don't you? (break the word down...***/u/me in other words when you assume you make and *** out of yourself and the other person) If you didn't take the responsibility to buy some condoms and use them...then that is also on you. No birth control is 100% effective anyway. The only thing that is 100% is to STOP HAVING SEX.
Sorry you are finding yourself in that situation....but basically you did it to yourself. (unless of course she was unfaithful then that is a whole other can of worms.....) Best of luck.
2006-08-31 12:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by mrsjav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort your life out. Your obv very immature and don't realise that if you use a condom she wouldn't get pregnant duh. Even if she said she was taking the pill or something.
It would have been better to be safe and now look, the poor child is not ever going to have a good life and by the looks of it know its father when it grows up.
Well it will be you the one missing out. Hope you grow up in the near future
2006-09-01 01:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Loady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off let me tell you, you are a sorry excuse for a man. i feel so sorry not only for the baby but the mother. its men like you that make me sick. i know if my now husband ever said that about me when i got pregnant with our daughter, well lets just say it wouldnt be pretty. let me give u a bit of advice...ready...GROW THE HELL UP AND NEXT TIME I BET TO HELL YOU'LL USE A CONDOM huh? its time to be a grown up now, no more g-i joes and playing around, your a daddy, deal with it and love that baby with all you've got. like someone else said, that baby doesnt even know whats going on, its an innocent baby. grow up and take responsibilty and start covering your dick when you get excited... :)
2006-08-31 11:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Hotlilmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it takes two to make a child. You want the pleasure of sexual intercourse without accepting the responsiblity that comes with it. Grow up. Be a real man and not a petulant boy. A real man stands by his children, supports and nurtures them to be all they can be. He doesn't disrespect the mother of his children...(what's with this 'b*tches thing???) The child that is coming into the world is innocent and knows nothing of this. It is your flesh and blood. How can you disown your own children? Your attitude is disrespectful and childish. You need a massive dose of maturity son and very quickly.
2006-08-31 11:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by keefer 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
you are disgusting how dare you,the child will be better off without you anyway, be a man and stand up for your responsibility's you did the deed so get over your self and do the right thing the least you can do is provide financial support if your old enough to get a job by the sounds of it your not
2006-09-04 10:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by sandy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 50% at fault for this too! If this is your resoponse to an unwanted pregnancy, maybe you should have thought about a condom? That way you know for a fact you are PROTECTED from having a baby!
2006-08-31 12:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the option of wearing a condom or getting a vasectomy if you didn't want to have kids. Grow up and realize that it was your "stupid fault" too.
2006-08-31 11:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you didnt use protection either so it is just as much ur fault, ur are stupid if you didnt want to have a child and didnt use protection, i pitty you child for haveing a father like you, i just hope her mum is a great mum.
And if you are so against being a father, sign over you parental rights then you have absolutley no claim to your child, i take it thats what you want.
2006-08-31 23:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by linsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you know when having sex with a girl even if on birth control and using protection you have a chance of getting her pregnant. Even if she's couldn't get pregnant because something wrong with her still a small chance. So that's why.
2006-08-31 11:24:10 · answer #11 · answered by Sondra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋