She was in love with me till like 3 months ago and told me she did was not, i am so heart broken and all. i dont know what to do, she looks in my eyes and tells me still "I love you but not in love with you" We have been together for a while and i dont know what i am going to do. i love her with all my heart and i wish there was a way i could so her, i need advice, I pray there is hope with her and I
2006-08-31 11:14:21 · 21 answers · asked by its me and u are u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-31 11:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are way more into her then she is into you. How can you be happy with that? You need more, a girl who can love you completely. I bet if you left her and acted like you weren't in love with her, she would rethink everything. Give her some space and do some thinking yourself during that time. Maybe there's someone way better out there, but you've not had the time to look or even wanted to look. You should check those other fish out in that sea out there. Try to act aloof with your girlfriend, I think a few days without you and your wonderful love with all your heart will make her sad and she will fall back in love with you. If not, like I said there are more fish in the sea that can love you with their whole heart.
P.S Maybe she digs someone else and may be ready to leave you at any minute anyway. Why not beat her to the punch. Good Luck and God Bless you!
2006-08-31 11:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is learn how to formulate a question then proof read the question. This will be a good start so people understand what you are trying to type. But dump the bit@h, there is way too many shallow women out there that will go out with you.
2006-08-31 11:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up dude, She probably did you a favor, better now , than later after you married her. Life is like a bus ride that has many stops, and every time that door opens , there is a new group of girls just looking for someone, And you might be that someone. Give yourself some time to get over her, and get out there on the hunt, and be aggressive but nice. you will find your next girl is the one you have been looking for all along. note: when your ex sees this and she will probably want you back, just remember SHE dumped your *ss !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
2006-08-31 11:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by john l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl who's been in the same situation I have plenty of sympathy for you. But just know that she can't help whether or not she loves you. Nobody can help who they love. Just be completely honest with her and tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she's just not ready to be in love, or it's not the right time for her. You can't know how she's feeling so my advice: just ask her. You can't go wrong there. Good luck.
2006-08-31 11:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all dude man you will just need lots of time and alcohol to get through this life will throw fast ones at you. Man just be glad that you had the opportunity to be with her and know that nothing life stay the same everything changes. If I were you I would just try to get some alone time and dont think of her and take your mind off of her. Hang out with friends go get drunk there is more to life and more people out there it all just takes time
2006-08-31 11:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's been with you too long. It seems like you are probably soul mates, so give her some space. Later, she'll come back to you. Don't worry too much. Or maybe she's not your soulmate. Be single again and see what happens. It seems like you love her to death. Hopefully she'll come around. If not, I hope you find someone who loves you to death and would do anything for you. You totally deserve it!
2006-08-31 11:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then you have to let her go. If she comes back later, then you'll be okay. If not, then you will have to move on and start from scratch. That is just how it is. I am not saying that there is no hope, but don't be surprised.
2006-08-31 11:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnotize her, then you can regress her back to being in love with you. It's only a feeling, that's all. Just recreate what you had once again.
Hey, maybe she cheated on you and now shes thinking of someone else, ask her?
2006-08-31 11:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to let you down easy, she can't be in love with you and hurt you like that. You have to have the courage to walk away and know that someone better is out there for you.
2006-08-31 11:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's just been setting her standards too high lately...or maybe she's just gotten bored. i dont even know the female mind!!!! AND IM A FEMALE!!! its probably that you've just been doing the same things for 2 years and she's not seeing that you serve any new things to her. how old r u guys again?
2006-08-31 11:18:43 · answer #11 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋