Ok, I am 5'6, big, with blue eyes and my hair is currently black and copper colored. I am what some people call punk/goth. Anyway, I can never seem to get a guy to like me and the ones that admit that they do still wont go out with me. Whats wrong with me that makes guys not want to be with me? What can I do to get them to like me and to ask me out without seeming desperate and slutty?
2006-08-31 11:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's a jungle out there..
2006-08-31 11:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Lucifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, your still really young. So don't feel like an old maid. I am 31 and just got engaged. However, you are 16. Maybe you should try a different look? I'll be honest. I have seen girls going for the goth look and a lot of them are pretty, but the look is....well a little creppy. Im not saying change who you are, but try to put the best you forward. Also don't concentrate on getting a guy. Work on your interests (besides guys), get a hobby or involved in something. I think those things will make you come across a lot more attractive and people will want to get to know the real you. Good luck.
2006-08-31 18:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by L. G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.lose weight...most guys don't like 'big'
2.Make your hair natural looking, not crazy colors
3.Drop the whole punk/goth thing and just be normal
If you do all those you should have no problem getting a guy. of course, that is changing who you are and all....you might not want to do that. So you can just wait until you find a guy that likes you the way you are....
2006-08-31 18:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats how i come on with guys, cept ur 5 inches TALLER THEN ME!!!! but i guess my height doesn't matter that much...ANYWAYS!!! theres nothing wrong with you! it's just the fact that you THINK something is wrong with you! that's not proving yourself to be confident! you've gotta be happy with what you are and stop stressing over things that really aren't such a big issue! if you are sketchy with yourself, how does that make other people not sketchy of you? good luck with that!
2006-08-31 18:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change the goth style or find a goth guy
2006-08-31 18:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by maerbear2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, the best thing is to be yourself. He is out there , probably asking where's the right girl for me.
2006-08-31 18:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just act like they dont matter Just talk and nothing more and eventually one of them will want to take you out. Theres no rush. Theres someone for everyone!
2006-08-31 18:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lose the goth style
2006-08-31 18:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by soccer chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just b yourself
2006-08-31 18:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by uwishuknew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how already, you're destined to be a crazy cat lady.
2006-08-31 18:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋