well, i really don't want to break up but he is behaving totally strange. so i was like: do you wanna make a break? (like not seeing each other etc.) he was like mute for 3 min. i asked him to answer and finally he said: i'm thinking....and then he said:well, do you? i told him not to ask the same question.then there was silence....in the end i told him sth like 'not really' but the what follows is a f***! he told me that he doesn't even have to say when he's leaving. he can just go away when he's fed up or if he's fed up with me.or like, he will go when he wants. sth like that,i'm trying to translate :) then he was all nice and mellow,on our way back home he asked me again:do you wanna make a pause?bla bla bla bla i was like again;no.i asked: so, on what terms are we?he was like:on whichever you want. hey, my friend is getting married in 2 weeks, do you wanna go with me?
PEOPLE,help! what is going on???
2006-08-31 11:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by LadyPandora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Lady MacBeth: I am no King Arthur or nothing but do believe that your boyfriend doesn't sound very committed to this relationship. So depends on what you want in a relationship. If your seeking someone to share your experiences (both good and bad with) then I'm going to suggest that this isn't the guy. But if your happy just by having a boyfriend and being used and treated foolishly then this is the guy for you. The decision is all yours, so take the advice from all these strangers and do with them what you think is right for you. Best of luck, and I have to be honest I hope you select first choice I recommended.
2006-08-31 11:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an *** to me. when you said that he doesn't have to tell you when he's leaving, that when he feels like it he can just up and leave when he's fed up with you..what's that crap - being in a relationship is all about communication, not just up and leaving when times get rough. you guys need to sit down and have a mature conversation and stop playing petty games.
2006-08-31 11:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks u wanna break up with u n hes trying to make it better, though nothing was wrong in the beginning...see thats wut happens wen ppl try to fix things that aren't broken, they break.
2006-08-31 11:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your gay now, and only date girls
2006-08-31 11:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋