because I found out yesterday that a guy I have loved and adored for 3 years is engaged. We dated and he meant so much to me.
My hearts sinking and I feel like crying. I really don't know what to do.
He was a Godsend. He was one of those people you meet and you know they are from God. We had some sort of connection, and now he'll never be mine.
I don't know how to feel better. Please help me.
2006-08-31 11:00:07 · 8 answers · asked by pizzapie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you knew him for three years and you just found out he's engaged then you were not that important to him. And NEVER cry over someone that would not cry over you.
2006-08-31 11:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was NOT a godsend, and the quicker you realize that, the better off you will be.
He was a liar and a cheater and he MADE you "the other woman" he was dating someone else the time you were together. This guy STINKS.
Time will help you get over this, but you need to realize there is no knight in shining armor here. He's a louse and you should be happy that YOU aren't stuck with the cheater for the rest of your life. he did YOU a favor. Cry all you want, eat ice cream, watch chick flicks with your friends, then GET OVER IT.
You WILL find someone who IS meant for you, and truly is a godsend, but this was NOT the one.
2006-08-31 18:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I feel aweful for you! There is nothin anyone is going to say here to make you feel better right away.
HOWEVER, How dare that SOMEBI*CH for walking out on the best thing he had going! He will regret the day he left you for the rest of his life! He is a DAWG! POND SCUM! And I bet his mother wont even love him anymore!
2006-08-31 18:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by jb_cpq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead cry because you need to get that out of your system and you will get over this believe it or not eventually someone better will come along what a slime ball this guy is to do this to you if you can you should let his fieance know because she doesnt need him either just be glad you found out when you did at least you didnt have a kid with him what a looser
2006-08-31 18:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me too, and unfortunately there isn't any way to instantly feel better. the best advice i can give you is just because it is definitely over for the two of you, don't let yourself get stuck thinking that it's over for YOU. i'm sure it feels like he was the be-all-and-end-all for you, but that just means you haven't met your real 'the one' yet. don't worry, i know things feel kind of hopeless, but you're only in the middle of the journey right now. it's not over!
2006-08-31 18:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain. Talk to him or get off. Spend your time in some other things for a while then start on again
2006-08-31 18:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by J Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are hurting. I am, too, for similar reasons. I don't have a solution, but hopefully it helps to know that there are others in your same situation.
2006-08-31 18:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a large pizzapie with the works and eat it.
2006-08-31 18:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋