2006-08-31 10:30:22 · 31 answers · asked by Funny Lady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your perfectly normal
2006-08-31 10:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i lost mine when i was 24...it had a LOT to do with the person i was sleeping with, i just wasn't turned on by him anymore. Our relationship wasn't healthy and the sex wasn't all that great, i couldn't wait for him to "finish" and it was a chore to initiate it with him and get it over with. After i left my ex i found that some men turned me on more than others, it was the way they approached having sex, the way i felt when i was with them not only in bed, but also in public...how they treated me, it was more that just the sex that effected me being turned on. And of course foreplay is HUGE, if a guy makes you feel like the sexiest girl on earth and takes time to appreciate every inch of your body before heading to the hotspots - he's unleashed a nympho! I'm 27 now and i KNOW if i was still with my ex i would be in your situation...so if you're in a relationship - talk to him about foreplay and taking his time with you. If that doesn't work, move on girlfriend...or get yourself some toys =o) good luck sweetie.
2006-08-31 10:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you taking Paxil? If so stop right now Im not kidding It has horrible side effects. My previous husband lost his hormones at age 35 and it was the beginning of the end. Maybe youre just tired or sick of working If you have love it should get better...
2006-08-31 10:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're totally normal. Its not abnormal to lose one's sexual drive and then regain it back again. Stress, physical and mental, can cause you're libido to lower. Don't worry, its not a sign that your sick or that you're not into the person you may be with.
Sometimes antidepressants or other meds can lower your sex drive. Its never a bad idea to talk to your doctor. But in the meantime...
Relax, devote your time to other interests and give it time. I'm sure it will return!!
2006-08-31 10:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Katie A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens to everybody at every age, male or female. It could be so many things. Depression, meds you are on, stress, hormone changes. Give it some time and if you don't get the urge in a few weeks, get some help.
2006-08-31 10:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer may lie in your childhood. Did anything bad happen to you sexually when you were younger. (any chance it did but you've blocked it out? Women who are molested as children often cannot develop healthy sexual relationships. Typically this might include a crazy advanced sex drive when dateing but loseing sex drive with a long term partner who you may love but is now in the role of the male in charge
2006-08-31 10:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by der_grosse_e 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could happen because you've fallen into a "rut". You do the same sexual things over and over and you just need something new. Try new positions, new places, toys or movies. If that doesn't help, go to the doctor and explain the situation. He can put you on pills to increase your labido.
2006-08-31 10:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i don't think that's normal, but I'm sure the Lady's know better than i do. I'm sure there is a logical explanation for it though. Go over things in your mind and try to remember when you started feeling that way, maybe that will tell you why.
2006-08-31 10:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens...don't freak out...for a lot of women their sex drive is like a rollercoaster most of their lives (up, then down, then up, then down) depending on what's going on in their lives, their hormones, etc.
How long has it been low? Have you talked to your doc about it? There may be something that can be done, especially if it's a hormone imbalance.
2006-08-31 10:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you on any type of Medicine?
You didn't say that part, it could be a side effect, but probably just a temporary thing, Good Luck.
2006-08-31 10:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh thats alright, im 26 and most of the time i dont even think about sex let alone have sex. there isnt any thing wrong with that.
2006-08-31 10:36:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋