my brother is in prison 1.2 years how do i get prison him im 14
2006-08-31 10:25:05 · 37 answers · asked by beau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's is a dumb thing to say, how about showing him how uch more mature you can be then him at 14, and just miss him. I have lost loved ones, and don't ask how I get to heaven. Atleast he is somewhere safe, and u will get too see him again.
2006-08-31 10:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by angel1986 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you would not be in the same prison as him ( you are a young lady, men and women are seperate) so you would not be able to see him anyway. How about being a supportive little sister and keeping him in your prayers, sending him lots of card and letters, calling and visiting whenever you can. People in prison need alot of support from their family and friends on the outside and that is the best thing you could do for him. Stay positive for him and for your family. You will create more stress for everyone involved if you try to get yourself in trouble. I don't think your brother would want that for you, he would want you to learn from his mistakes and make a better life for yourself. I know you miss him, but stay optimistic and focused for him and yourself. :)
2006-08-31 10:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Annieo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry my darling,its a terrible time.please do not do anything daft as so you can go to prison aswell.your brother would be very cross and upset with you if you did im sure.crime doesnt pay and you have learnt this from your brother.he will be ok im sure.just be there for him.write regulary and visit if you can.please do not think of doing anything.for a start,what would your family say,also you would not be near/with your brother anyway.the prison service would not allow it im sure.take each week as it comes.work hard be good and become proud of yourself.be a role model to your brother.even if hes older,show him the way to a better life.im sure you can do that.good luck.remenber,you may feel lost without him and very low,but that will fade.support him when you can,and take care of yourself.
2006-08-31 11:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How awful for you to be without your brother for 1.2 years (although he may not do that much).
The best thing you can do for him - and for yourself - is to stay positive. Try and get involved in activities (sports/arts/music?) that will keep you out of trouble and make some good friends. No need to feel guilty about having fun while your bro is away. Write him lots of letters and let him know how much you care about him and tell him about the things you are doing. He will want to know that you are doing OK. And when he comes out he will be proud of his little brother.
Really - he would feel ten times worse and really guilty if you got locked up too.
2006-09-01 01:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by granny2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 14 and he is an adult you would never end up in the same type of prison anyway, plus i don't think people can pick and choose which prison they get put in!
The best thing you can do, is work hard and be an inspiration to him, make him proud of you for being a good person-don't waste your life.
You can be there to support him if neccessary, but make sure you build a good future for yourself, he may need you when he gets out!
All the best, and he will probably be out sooner than that anyway if he is good.
2006-08-31 10:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by BRICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand you miss him but you need to talk that through with someone. You going to prison is not going to solve the problem because you wont be in the same prison and you would end up missing more than him.
2006-08-31 10:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Alf Garnett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother's in prison too and will be there for maybe up to 12 years - hasn't been sentenced yet.
Make your parents proud and stay OUT of prison. That's waht I'm doing. You can support him better from the outside.
Write to him lots.
Good luck.
2006-08-31 10:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Boingy Tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obviously missing your brother really badly to ask such a thing.
following in his footsteps is not a good idea, I'm sure if he knew what you were thinking he'd be mad with you.
prison is not easy street and at 14 you wouldn't get to go to an adult prison or even if you did you'd be put in a different one to your brother.
are your parents or carers so bad you can't stand to be without him? a good brother wouldn't have done anything so bad he needed locking up and leaving you.
your going to be ok. confide in someone you can trust. tell them how you feel.
if you haven't got anyone to talk to you can email me, I'll listen.
please don't commit any crime, you don't need to, make your brother proud of you by keeping strong and out of trouble x
2006-08-31 11:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14, you won't get sent to prison. I don't understand why you think this is the only way to see him - you can visit people in prison you know.
2006-08-31 10:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by seaside_girl_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a plug on your own kettle or dont pay the tv licence or you could do well at school get a job and give him a blinding party when he gets out i bet he would love that after being stuck in prison for while start planing your special day now and write to him telling him all about it
2006-09-02 04:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by lpricrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How stupid is this question I cant believe I am gonna answer it but o well its 2 points for me. You shouldnt want to go o prison and I dont think you rbrother will want you there anyway....He will want you to be happy.....If that was my sister and I was in prison I would ever talk to her again if she did something stupid to get in prison to be with me.....+ they wouldnt put you in the same prison with him anyway you nob!!
2006-09-01 00:13:19 · answer #11 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋