I know this guy, and I've liked him for a long time. He also told met that he liked me, but he "doesn't want a girlfriend right now". And so we've been "just friends" since. I don't know how much longer I can just be friends with him. I like him too much to only be friends. What should I do?
2006-08-31 10:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by Mary Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and tell him how you feel. Ask that he be honest in letting you know how he feels. If he's still not ready for a relationship, then find yourself someone else to like as "more than a friend."
2006-08-31 10:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is just like mine. If this guy is that special to you, just hold on he'll come around. But if things start to change in your relationship, to were you are being avoided by him or he won't talk to you, then just let him go. I've been friends with my guy for three years. For a year now i've liked him as more and we are just starting to Change the direction of our relationship. So just hang in there!
2006-08-31 10:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might not really like you "more than a friend" and he is just trying to be polite so as not to hurt your feelings. I say, move on, as hard as it may be, and remove yourself from the situation. He may keep you around as an ego boost and then when he does get a girlfriend, you will be crushed and questioning yourself even more. Sorry.
2006-08-31 10:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should come up and tell him that you want to be with him and if he dose not then you will not wait for him any more. I know this is hard trust me, you will be better off due to the fact that you might be letting someone that will love you pass you by
2006-08-31 11:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by its me and u are u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him if u 2 can be friends wit benefits then u won't be so far from being a couple.
2006-08-31 10:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Cosmo! Men that say 'I dont want a relationship', it means they do just not with you.
2006-08-31 10:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him somehow you will forget your feeling it is not just good to wait for nothing.
2006-08-31 10:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by lolipop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it
2006-08-31 10:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you said here. how you feel.
2006-08-31 10:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋