the first day of school i saw this guy that i liked. the next day i found out that he was in my lunch period. i planned on talking to him the next day but i couldn't find a good time too. i sat with my friends and one guy that likes my friend and i asked him what the one guys name was(the one i liked) he said his name was tyler and i also asked him if he had a gf he said that he didn't. later on during lunch he went over and started to talk to the guy that i liked and they kept pointing at me (while i was pretending not to notice) i don't know what they said though. then i found out that my friend liked him too. i was talking to her and i found out that another girl liked him too and is going to ask him out tomorrow. i really like him and don't want that other girl to get to him first bc hes new to the school and im pretty sure that he'll go out with her but im not possitive. i haven't even talked to him yet and i don't see him till almost the end of the day. what should i do??
2006-08-31 10:14:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play it cool. If you try to go for him, you run the risk of making a fool of yourself if Mr. New Guy is attracted to one of the other two "contestants" interested in winning Mr. New Guy's heart.
If you play it cool, you are ultimately the winner even if Mr. New Guy is too dumb to realize how special you are. Have confidence in yourself. I mean, look at how many of us put a couple of minutes aside just to answer your question. We don't even care about the other two girls. Besides, you want a real man, and that's a guy who gets you and has the maturity to go for the one he likes.
Don't influence him into liking you. If you do that, he'll expect you to do all the work when you are actually in a relationship. If a guy sense a girl likes him, he makes her do all the work.
Don't encourage this kind of behavior. Just do your job by being as cool as you can be and by looking your best. If he goes for the other two girls, you have to realize that he just wasn't good enough for you and settled for them.
Between you and I, I think that guy is crazy to not have spoken to you. His friend obviously was whispering that you'd asked about him, so obviously, that guy is supplying him information on you. If a guy talks to another guy about a girl, that usually means that they are talking about how hot you are and taking mental notes. It's a common guy thing in building rapport to compare notes about the females and how they look.
He may even consider the new guy a threat and might say nasty things about you to make you seem less important so that he can keep tabs on you. Yeah, guys are a lot sneakier than they appear. Yah, we're dumb, but on the other hand, we aren't totally brain dead either.
If mr. new guy doesn't go for you by next Friday, dismiss him as an amateur poser and go for a guy that's more in your league. A guy that's smarter, better looking, and laid back. A guy like me. I mean not me...but, you know what I mean.
2006-08-31 10:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in school you are there to learn and get good grades, your education is important, and not just thinking about who you could do next. It's a fact that at your age boys will want to try new things. That makes you "used goods" when you go to marry later on in life. And, you need to know that when a girl asks a guy out that tells him you are "easy"..not the kind of thing a decent girl wants to be known as. You'll have plenty of time in life to go out with boys. Now is not the time.
2006-08-31 10:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to no longer control the area lots. If he does such as you he would be receptive to chatting with you for any reason in any respect. Ask him some classification, or if he's in a sport, ask him while the subsequent sport is, or how the final one went. point out a mutual buddy. something will do, do no longer you will possibly desire to be all cute, communicate with him like absolutely everyone else, which will supply a extra helpful impact which you 'are in his league' and not a wanna be for use and tossed aside.
2016-11-06 04:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully, it's not a race. You can ask him out later in the week, right? It's not like he'll be tied to this other girl after one date. Tomorrow at lunch, be brave, go sit with him.
2006-08-31 10:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start singing or humming something nice talk to friends that are close bye his locker and since he's new just go up to making it look like you run into him by mistake and he'll help you pick up your things and you help pick up his things and then just chit chat and ask if he wants to hang out or not unless he ask first then the next day sit by him but say something before saying sitting and then sit and talk about something and just be yourself, don't be shy or you won't become a success just talk away being yourself (not someone else) and smile don't laugh and then once hanging out a few days ask him out.
2006-08-31 10:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by wyanehaltcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah...to be young and in love. First of all, you have to talk to him first. Don't rush into anything. Then later you can ask him out. If he says yes to the other girl first, don't worry. It's not like he's married to her. Ask him out later when you two know each other a little more.
2006-08-31 10:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and concentrate on school instead of guys. A High School relationship never lasts because you all are WAY too immature. You might think that it's love at first sight and that you're going to be together forever, but you're not. Trust me.
2006-08-31 10:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him without even an excuse.(like asking for the homework asignment) Just say hi and flirt alittle. If the guy really wants to go out with another girl is there really anything you can do about it?
2006-08-31 10:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worrys k. if u don't know his personality yet how are u going to know if it will work. u don't just ask a guy out of no where. so if that girl dose ask i am pritty sure she will get a no. just try and be his friend and then ask. work most times. just get to know him, then u will know if u like him. it's not all about looks.
2006-08-31 10:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have a head start by your guy friend telling him that you liked him. talk with him tomorrow the guy you like tyler. just go up and say hi.
2006-08-31 10:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋