Womans and their moods change, why???? Help this poor guy!?

Question

I asked a question but I think I have to separate it now on simple questions to understand things better (the question is accesible if you want to know). But on this one. I am 31 years old and I was in an awesome relationship and things were going perfect, I tried to balance work, my carrer-school and my personal life, I was able to spend the entire weekends with my gf and sometimes random days during the week (she is a mother of 2 kids, I don't have kids). We broke the first time since she was going WAY too fast, then we went back together, on month 5, I was always dedicating the same time to her, but she started to treat me bad, like I was not having time for her, and I didn't know how to handle a loving relationship and I was clueless of what she was talking about, complaining, complaining, hanging up on me on the phone, then complaining I didn't call her back after she did that!!!!, I got more upset than her one day, and I finished the relationship.

Then like 10 days later, I was missing her terrible and I wondered if we can find a better solution, I contacted her and she was having fun in her single life with her friends and she was basically trying to hurt me telling it seemed to be so much better her life, didn't want me to walk away neither, didn't want me to take me, kept doing that for like 3 months until I just got so tired and asked her for a yes or no, she decided to let me go. She was completely in love when we were together. The question is, does a woman consider normal blame his boyfriend for absolutely no reason when the guy all he is trying to do is to find time to build his life by going to school (while always dedicating the same time to her), why a person can switch moods from being ok, and then when you go back to your house, the phone rings and she is creating problems where they don't exists!!!??. If you are a woman, have you created a problem without any needs?, or know a friend that does it?, WHYYY?

Answer 1

Well, I think we create problems not on purpose but naturally without knowing it to see how you could take it and if you truly loved her you would move heaven and earth to fix whatever. Women even I put guys to alot of tests to see what happens. Sometimes the tests backfire and we end up complainng. Well, that's what I use to do back in highschool. Now for some reason I've changed from the one causing the problem to the one willing to work things out. But I'm still getting over my ex so I can't be that sure. Sorry if this isn't that much help.

Answer 2

She's acting out because she feels like you have either wronged her, or do not appreciate or her or give her what she needs. Now that might be because she feels she wants this relationship to move faster, or because she wants more of your time and attention than you give. Its neither of your guys's fault, its just different preferences/needs. You two need to get to the ROOT of the problem. What does she want from you that you are not doing. What do you want from her that she is not doing (maybe ask her to fight fair and talk about the actual problem rather than transferring it to other things). Don't look at the small stuff about her whining about you not calling her back... thats just all in the fight. What is the MAIN problem? If you two are in a relationship you should be able to communicate.
But if she keeps lashing out and not being reasonable you should end it because she isn't fighting fair. Hanging up on you, and getting mad when you dont' run after her and beg her forgiveness is immature for a woman with 2 kids.

Answer 3

Sounds to me like she's insecure and untrusting, therefore trying to push you away even though you seem to be a nice guy. If she's never had a normal relationship, then this one to her is abnormal. I would say move on, life is too short for all that drama, you only live once, if it didnt work the first 2 times what makes you think a 3rd is going to? They call them ex's for a reason.

Answer 4

Some women are just hard to please. My boyfriend likes to joke that this is me: "Come here, come here! Get away, get away!" It is like once you have something, you don't want it, but then when you don't have it, you wonder where it went and why it isn't calling. Women are difficult creatures, some more than others. I'm sorry to say, it sounds like a self-destructive relationship, maybe this woman does not want a relationship with you, but can't say it, so she is acting out.?? You may be better off to just move on.

Answer 5

well she was moving very fast right. well when you got back together she must have thought that you wanted "back on track" with the 2 kids and all that she is looking for stable and when she started to want to ramp up and you didnt you "obviously" dont care as much as she does. forget this chick and move on to someone who has the same priorities or at least a sense of timing with an eye on the future

Answer 6

maximum male hormones bypass to progression yet woman hormones reason temper swings and emotional differences. end being a wimp. And in that guy's case, it fairly is not hormones. Hormones do not make you do this. He in simple terms needed to sleep with a warm female. If a woman slept with a warm guy that she did not like (if she's not a slut) she'd sense terrible approximately it the next day. yet a guy could brag approximately it! See the version?

Answer 7

well,it sounds like you dodged the bullet, so i don't know what advice i could give you other than don't generalize women, yes we have mood swings, but who doesn't nobody feels the same all the time. It sounds like you could benefit from getting back out there and dating alot of women just to see how terrific we are.

Answer 8

We're very moody. If you did something wrong, she'll find any reason to make you feel like ****. We all do it, whether we want to admit it or not. You did the right thing in ending the relationship.

Answer 9

In all honesty, I think she was behaving very "child-like." As much as it hurts, you're probably better off. Just keep in mind, that there is someone out there who is much better for you. Someone who can truly make you happy, and appreciate all that you have to offer her. Take care!!

Answer 10

Hey buddy, you need to listen to TOM LEYKIS and learn how to properly deal with women, particulary with single mothers. Remember, Leykis 101 might save your life.