How do i avoid a guy i like after finding out from his roomate that he is sleeping around?

Question

I started seeing a guy like a week ago and we hit it off right away. We kissed & spent time together but never did i sleep with him. Im not the type to sleep with guys right away. However, i did really like him and i wouldnt have minded that in the FUTURE we would have become intimate.I really liked him & i NEVER seem 2 meet guys whom i have chemistry w/. but LUCKY ME, his roomate just told me that even though he is talking to me, he is also sleeping with other girls & is always searching for new ones.So im not here to ask what i should do cuz obviously im waving goodbye to that idiot.Im just wondering how to go about it without making it obvious that his FRIEND told me the truth.I dont want his friend to get in trouble, so should i not pick up his calls?? i mean, it doesnt matter cuz he obviously doesnt care about me..i just dont want the roomate to get in trouble. oh, and i will run into him again in the future becuz im friends with the roomate. so if some1 can help!thx!

this just in: the roomate told me that the girl i like broke it off with his ex, (which is still aroun di guess) because he couldnt "keep his d*ick in his pants"....
history does repeat itself and according to the roommate he is still seeing other girls. i know we just met and there is no commitment but i dont like the fact that i am one of many...

this just in: the roomate told me that the guy i like broke it off with his ex, (which is still aroun di guess) because he couldnt "keep his d*ick in his pants"....
history does repeat itself and according to the roommate he is still seeing other girls. i know we just met and there is no commitment but i dont like the fact that i am one of many...

Answer 1

Tell him you are not interested in him in THAT way. It works.

Answer 2

Well first I would ask y r u running from him if he is just someone u met and second have u ever questioned the "roommates" motive 4 telling u this (assuming he is a guy)? Do u have any proof? U said that the 2 of u had chemistry and that's good right? Well he did have a life before meeting you just like you had a life before meeting him. People can change. If he wants to sleep around that's on him as long as you don't give in and ask him if it's true and if he is using protection because who says the roommate is telling the truth? Have you ever thought maybe the roommate wants u and y did u just take the roommate's word 4 it? U seem like a strong girl don't run face it head on. If u don't want to reveal that the roommate told that's on u but from what I hear this new friend hasn't done anything wrong to u so don't pre-judge him.........people do find "the right one" and stop messing around. If u choose not to continue a friendship just tell him..it's ur priviledge to make that decision not anyone elses.

Answer 3

Sounds like you fell for the oldest trick in the book, this guy telling you this about the guy you like is just trying to get into your pants sweety if he hasn't done that already I guess I'm to late on answering this question and So is everyone else. ( trouble What a laugh that is ) the only one in trouble is you baby your facing a cross wind between jealousy and you can't see the storm until it's in front of you Are you sure this isn't a blond joke I heard once before, LOL aany way good luck And for good measures stay with the first guy you wanted to be with and tell his roommate to go screw him self and stop being a penisleech

Answer 4

First of all, this guy's roomate is a first class hater, and you should not trust him. Obviously any man that tells you something about your boyfriend, is trying to get you in his own bed. You are basically in competition, another girl is gonna take your boyfriend everytime if she gives it up easily. You are one of the very few girls left that makes a guy wait, It's your right you do it when you are ready, don't let any boy pressure you into anything. You should stay away from his roomate as well, he is just a wolf in sheeps clothing.

Answer 5

This guy obviously has no secrets about his 'roaming'. You could have learned about it on the news! No reason his friend should get in trouble.
You are one smart lady to let this one go.
You have the right idea....don't answer his calls, look 'through' him rather than at him, make sure you are leaving just as he is arriving......you know the drill.

Answer 6

Just tell him that you talked to a couple of girls that he's messing with and tell him he is a loser and that you don't want a disease. Then say good-bye and be done with him. Men are losers and can't be happy with one woman. Don't let him fool you.

Answer 7

And there's a problem with him sleeping with other women? You and him have NO committment....so why do you expect him to be "just yours"? If you really did care for him, you would ask him if he would like to be in a committed relationship....not just EXPECT IT, when all you've done is kiss him....GEEZ !!!!

Answer 8

The mistake you are making is assuming he doesn't care about you. Men don't necessarily attach the same emotional committment to physical intimacy that women do. Until you have an exclusive committment with him, he is free to have sex with whomever he chooses.

Answer 9

Just tell him no thanks or your not ready to pursue anything further with him. Since he's playing so many woman at once I don't think you will have a difficult time warding him away.

Answer 10

well one thing you can do is ask him if he is sleeping or going out with other chicks and see what he says bcuz if you know how to tell if he is lieing then you will know trust me

Answer 11

Just tell him straight up, that you know he's a player and that you are not into that kind of a relationship.