This is a 2 part question.
I don't want to be an old Dad!! I feel like "my" clock is going into overdrive...i really think guys have just as much as a clock as women do. what do you think?
All of my friends are in realtionships or already married. I am still single and looking. I am a decent guy, just haven't made the right connection. But lately I am feeling the pressure to procreate before I am thirty. Is it possible to fall in love, get married, and have a child within 2 years?? Or should I plan for 35??
2006-08-31 09:53:58 · 29 answers · asked by Krunky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it time. When the right women comes you'll know. Don't go looking for her. It's better if you let THEM come to YOU. patents goes a long way. Just think of it this way, since they rushed on getting married, they probably didn't care who it was or they found their perfect match. Just be patent and when its time she'll come. Good luck and i wish you well.
2006-08-31 09:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by soccerbrikel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't be an old dad, unless you are 15 to 20+ years older than your wife. You are still young. If you marry someone your age or about 5+ years younger that gives you a little time. Women can have babies in their 40's, but most choose to have them in their 20's and 30's. So you do the math. The right woman will come along when you least expect it. Just keep your eyes open. You will probably meet that special person in an unexpected place. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-08-31 17:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible! I got divorced at 30 from a 8 yr. marriage, found the man of my dreams a couple months later, got married to him and got pregnant! All of this happened in the same year! I even shocked myself at all this happening so fast. I'm now 33, we've been married for almost 3 yrs, and have two beautiful children that we both thought we'd never have!!!!!! You never know what fate may bring! You're not too old yet! My husband and I started our lives all over again at 30. And we still may have more children.
2006-08-31 17:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am still a teenager and don't know very much about relationships, but I do believe in true love at any age so, yes its possible to get married before age 30 and remeber that lots of people are getting married much oler ( about age 28 at the least) actually some get married at age 40 and have kid much older.good luck and I hope you find your true love
2006-08-31 17:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible however you can NOT put a time frame on love do not rush it. i understand you wanting you to meet the right one and get on with your life and wanting a family and all but if you put a time frame on it and try to rush it you will most likely end up settling for someone probably the wrong someone and end up getting divorced and do you want that i don't think so relax it will happen when it is suppose to my daughters dad was 45 when he had her and he is a wonderful dad we are no longer together but he is still a great dad and i am sure you will be someday when the time is right
2006-08-31 17:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by dydy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to fall in love in 2 years and start a family it once it happens it generally happens fast and I agree it is better to have your kid's young because believe me they age you.But having kid's is the best thing they make you a better person.So I just think you should go with the flow and see what happens because if you try to hard chances are you won't meet that someone special GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-31 16:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to fall in love, get married, and have a child within 2 years. Wish you the best! ;)
2006-08-31 16:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by ME! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a rush. I know it is hard when all your friends are married. But just think of it this way..when the right girl comes along you won't care how old you are! I would definately take it as it comes along...you will find somebody...besides all of your friends should love helping you find the right girl!
2006-08-31 16:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hydee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't plan... you'll meet someone when you least expect it....just stay out in the world and someone will come along...your still young, live it up... you know yourself better in your thirty's, more secure, your better for someone else and having children...it's more likely to last when your a little older....good luck..
2006-08-31 17:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rushing to get married and have kids is never a good idea. if you're looking too hard you'll never find the right person. you just have to wait and let it happen naturally, the harder you force yourself to get married, to more pressure you get, just calm down, and take things slow.
2006-08-31 16:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋