I'm currently friends with this girl. We both enjoy spending time with each other. However, I'll be going to med school in a few months time while she will also be leaving the state after a year or a year and a half. This means I'm going to be very busy and she's going o be far away.
Problem is do I tell her how I feel towards her or do I just let things be. Do you think such long distance relationships can work?
2006-08-31 09:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by topgun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah - why not? If you really have strong feelings for her tell her and whatever happens after that happens BUT if you don't tell her you might wind up spending the rest of your life wondering "What if.........." Good Luck -Oh & I think ld relationships can work as long as theres a plan for eventualy moving to the same city. Sooner better than later.
2006-08-31 09:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chargers Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about your feelings, but realize that you'll probably have to break off your relationship when you go to school. Might as well enjoy the time you have left right?
2006-08-31 16:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried a long distence relatenship and it didn't work, but neither of us could drive and I wsan't aloud to date at the time...I would tell her how you feel otherwise you'll always wonder "what if" If it works Yeah for the two of you if it doesn't at least you tried, right?
2006-08-31 16:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your enjoying the time your spending, and you want to keep in touch and possibly visit. Feel the waters, before you jump in and confess your undieing love. Good for you both! Good luck.
2006-08-31 16:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is hard. Most of them do not last. If you feel so strongly about her she deserves to know. You never know what could come of it, but its worth a shot other wise your going to always wonder.
2006-08-31 16:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel!!! What would be worse,going away and not saying anything and then she could possibly met someone else or you could tell her how you feel and maybe she just might feel the same too! you dont have anything to loose,so just tell her and good luck.
2006-08-31 16:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by silentrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can work- if you work at them. You should tell her how you feel- if you don't, you'll regret it and always wonder what could have been
2006-08-31 16:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast tell her how you feel so you won't have those "what if's" thoughts. If its meant to be, it will work itself out anyway. :-D
2006-08-31 17:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
persnaly no what if they cheat on u?
2006-08-31 16:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by love train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋