Yes, I wore a veil...elbow length. The only reason I wore it was for tradition.
Here is the history of the veil.
Since mediaeval times, Anglo-Saxon and Anglo Norman women’s attire included veils. The tradition of wearing a veil was part of most married women. Historically unmarried girls wore no veils. The veil had a practical purpose for it had covered the woman’s hair, their neck and the chins. Veils had served a functional purpose, protecting women’s skin from wind and sun damage. By the 15th century, hoods become prevalent, and veils became less widespread.
Historically, brides wore their hair flowing down their back on their wedding day to symbolize their virginity, now the white veil is often said to symbolize purity.
The bridal veil may have a place in mythology. Ishtar, ancient Goddess of Love, came from the depths to me her betrothed; the vapors of the earth and sea covering her "like a veil". According to folklore, the tradition of the veil changed to include a blusher after Jacob was tricked into marrying his beloved Rachel's sister, Leah, who was distinguished under the full veiling. It seems there is much to be said for scrutinizing the bride before it is too late!
The development of the wide loom and silk tulle in the 19th century gave women a sheer covering that enhanced their attractiveness. The wedding veil signifies modesty, privacy, youth and virginity. That way of thinking still has significance on bridal etiquette, as only a first-time bride wears a veil.
Remember, your bridal veil supposed to complement your bridal gown. The most popular colors are white, diamond white, and ivory. Diamond white is an excellent choice if your bridal gown has a sheen. The lifting of the veil at the end of the ceremony symbolizes male dominance. If the bride takes the initiative in lifting it, thereby presenting herself to him, she is showing more independence.
White bridal veils symbolize the bride’s purity and modesty. Moreover, veils are used to add to the final touches of a wedding dress and to frame the bride's face.
2006-08-31 09:55:54
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answered by Mrs. Z 2
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I think people still wear wedding veils because it's traditional. Nothing say wedding like a white dress and veil. Some people also find them very pretty.
My understanding of the tradition was that it began as part of the whole "bartered bride" deal. The groom often didn't even know who his parents had picked out for him to marry, and in case the girl was somehow distasteful to him, they didn't want him jumping ship before the vows were completed.
In the Catholic Church, there was a time when women were to cover their head when inside a church. A veil took care of that for the bride.
None of the brides at the last three weddings I attended wore veils. I don't know if I will or not when the time comes - it'll probably depend on the dress.
2006-08-31 09:40:35
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answered by Church Music Girl 6
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Just because they're pretty, and when are you going to get another chance to wear one? I wore one because of the effect it gave on my look for the wedding day. I had a very formal dress with a train, and my veil was 12 feet long. It was fun, and it looks amazing in the pictures. But a lot of brides don't do the veil, and it's no big deal. It's just a matter of personal preference.
2006-09-01 03:01:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I did, and it was a touch decision. On one hand, I don't like what they traditionally stand for. On the other hand, it looked GREAT with the dress. So I decided to wear one.
Then I thought I would just wear it back and not over my head. But at the last minute I changed my mind. It makes you feel more like a bride, and my dad really wanted to lift the veil over my face. Seeing my wedding pictures from when I first entered the aisle, I don't regret my decision at all. The veil added such a nice touch.
2006-08-31 15:08:48
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answered by Pink Denial 6
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The reason I have been told is Biblical. When Laban tricked
Jacob into marrying Leah (his oldest daughter) by concealing her face with transparent veil. Jacob worked 7 years for Laban for the right to marry Rachael too ( his original intended). It began plural marriage during that time frame.
Yes, I wore a long veil but not over face ( I am claustrophobic )&
both my daughters & my daughter in law wore one. I have never been to wedding where bride did not have veil of some length.
They all looked great with dress & never considered not wearing one.My youngest daughter wore her Mother-in-law's veil to help her feel a part of wedding & she was thrilled.
2006-08-31 10:11:32
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answered by Wolfpacker 6
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Buying a veil seemed out of line for our wedding. It is OUR wedding. Although a veil is nice...it's also $50+. It's worn for just a moment of time, and then discarded. Some women even leave it behind by accident.
I wanted to splurge on the location. As a result the veil came away. I'm not crying. It's an accessory that just isn't needed.
2006-08-31 10:06:50
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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I wore one because I think they make the outfit look complete. It is tradition for the father of the bride to give you away and to lift the veil off of your face so your groom can take a look at you. In the old days the marriages were arranged so the groom didn't see his bride until this moment. I wore one and my dad lifted up my veil he did a great job. I think people just don't like change of tradition.
2006-08-31 09:43:11
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answered by glitter3317 4
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I'm going to wear a veil, but it is a fairly non-traditional veil. It has red edging and I'm going to wear it with a tiara, but not over my face.
I think many times women wear veils now because it seems to be a tradition and it adds to the attire.
2006-08-31 13:53:37
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answered by DanaElayne 3
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Traditionally the groom did not see the bride until after they were married.
I did wear a veil and kept it on during the ceremony. I wanted my husband to be the one to remove it the first time we kissed as man and wife.
2006-08-31 12:49:12
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answered by Lov'n IT! 7
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I didn't wear one over my face (a "blusher"), but I did wear a long cathedral veil behind me with a crystal tiara. I just thought it looked pretty and it was traditional without being not-me. I didn't feel like wearing the one over my face; it would have been weird!
To grandparents and older people, the blusher is a symbol of virginity. Women with their hearts set on a totally traditional ceremony usually wear them, but my husband and I wrote our own vows and did pretty much everything our own way. It depends on your style as to whether or not you should wear one. It would look pretty either way--just do what feels right!
2006-08-31 14:00:12
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answered by Jenny Alice 4
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