I really think hes nice and cool and athletic. My friends asked him out for me BUT he said no because my was too short, should I grow it out or keep it short? I really wanna be with this guy.
2006-08-31 09:24:44 · 16 answers · asked by kimmi_10_53 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because my hair waz 2 short
2006-08-31 13:51:24 · update #1
What? Go out with him.
2006-08-31 09:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change for anyone but yourself. If he doesn't like you because your hair is too short he is an incredibly shallow and controlling guy. Are you sure you want to be with someone like that?
2006-08-31 16:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you were trying to say your HAIR was too short? If he is THAT shallow, who needs him? You need to find someone who likes you for who you are, not just for your hair, body, ect. Looks are fine (we ALL would rather look at someone attractive, lets not kid ourselves) but if all there is to someone is looks, it doesn't take long for the interest to fade. Wear your hair the way YOU want it. Let him find some long-haired gal with half your personality. It will serve him right.
2006-08-31 16:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had it long,,did you like it? Years of experience tells me men like long hair better and it's becuse inside men know short hair is a sign of rebeliousness. If your gonna be rebelious it works better if you keep it a secret. If you just want to be yourself there is a lot to be said for strenth of character.
2006-08-31 16:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand this clearly...NEVER TRY to change yourself to accommodate someone else. If they like you for you, it will not matter. My grandmother always said "Don't start a habit you don't intend to keep up," which basically means that when you accommodate one thing, there will be another thing you end up doing to please him and in the end you will make yourself miserable.
2006-08-31 16:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Candilaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never change for a guy. I bet your are beautiful and a really sweet girl. Trust me, if you be yourself right now, you will find someone who likes you for who you are. Besides you will feel happy that you can be yourself. :)
2006-08-31 16:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by gatita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is u dont have to change that the way u are and if he cant accpet u the way ur are he wont in other areas he has to love u for what u are or how u r and dont change for anyone u dont know how much it going to last and then u going to be heart borken been there done that,,,
2006-08-31 16:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never change for anyone except yourself. If you start changing now he will constantly be trying to chang you into something you are not,.
2006-08-31 16:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS A WOMAN IN TODAY'S SOCIETY MEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WAYS TO MAKE US FIT THEIR PROFILES BUT WHAT ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT. YOU WANT TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR A GUY THAT MAY NOT EVEN LIKE YOU TO BEGIN WITH. IF A GUY WANTS YOU TO CHANGE THEN YOU DON'T NEED HIM. HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE AND NOT AS WHO HE WANTS YOU TO BE. ONE DAY MY HOPE IS FOR WOMEN TO REALIZE THAT THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT AND THAT IF A MAN CAN'T ACCEPT THEM FOR WHO THE ARE OR WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE THEN THEY REALLY DON'T NEED THAT MAN.
2006-08-31 16:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY NO WAY NO WAY!!! DON'T EVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR SOMEONE ELSE! change only for you and be the person you want to be never for what someone else wants you to be! ESPECIALLY when they are looking at something that is purly physical.
move on and find someone who likes you for you!!!
2006-08-31 16:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by angelcdm228 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋