2006-08-31 08:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by shugga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would go ahead and get over him
2006-08-31 08:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so many times women stay with their men that are really no good because they think they can change them. They let the few good times drown out the bad. If more women started having self esteem and realize that anyone who truly cared about you would never repeatedly hurt them they would leave. Instead of focusing on the good things that you have been through together, remember how bad it hurts in the bad times. The things he says that hurt so bad, the hits, the cheating and remember it always gets worse. When you find out why you keep allowing this person to hurt you you can break free.
2006-08-31 08:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that and still going through it, and now I am seeing someone and it helps me from thinking about the other one, I am slowly moving on? Maybe that's what you have to do find someone and it does'nt have to be another boyfriend it can be any anyone just someone you can talk too, to help you get over him??
2006-08-31 09:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Daisy_Duke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh shugga, you never get over him. You just learn ways to curb your thought patterns. It's all part of the letting go process. You'll find that throughout time you will think of him every so often and then less and less, but in truth, atleast for me, it doesn't ever really go away. It's called love... and when you decided that he wasn't good for you it turned to tough love. It's called that for a reason... good luck.
2006-08-31 08:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my man of 2 years (living together and the whole 9) 2 days ago it was so hard but we just wernt happy anymore and it hurts but time will heal all he has been calling but its too soon to talk
Give your heart time and it will get easier and you will look back and know you did the right thing
Good luck and dont forget to smile
2006-08-31 08:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by realizing and actually realizing that you're doing your best by moving on and leaving this person alone. think of him alone and by yourself without judgement from others. this will help you celebrate your new good descision and also mourn the love you have for him. don't ever stop loving him, theres nothing wrong with that, but don't be the fool on the tail end of the stick as my grandma used to say. think about it. Good Luck
2006-08-31 08:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's not good for you, find someone else that is good. That will take your mind off the one you broke up with.
2006-08-31 08:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself do you want to really spend the rest of your life with this guy no so move on get someone better that is good 4 you
2006-08-31 08:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I've been there. Get involved something positive that takes up your time. And like that other chick said...get into some other dude. That always works. CHEEEAAAHHH!!!
2006-08-31 08:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Shapoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn ur attention to someone else, even if u do it on purpose.
2006-08-31 08:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...... good question. well.....with lots and lots of time and ice cream. lol and try not to go around him and definitley don't call him or answer his calls. and he'll be the one hurting over you.
2006-08-31 08:50:07 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋