My Girlfriend and I have dated over half a year. We go to the same university so we have to spend the summer apart. She ended working at a camp in AR. while i stayed home in GA...i was worried going into this because she had dated someone from the camp the previous summer and they would be working together again (i explained to her how i was not comfortable with this situation and she often got mad at me and we fought)
well the summer passed and for the last month she just stopped calling and being affectionate (and if u knew this girl...affectionate is her middle name). so i knew something was up. and now that we are back at school together i asked to tell me why our relation ship was so bad during the summer. She told me her ex had said he still had feelings for her. and that it really confused her with everything. and she started liking him and i got put on the back burner.
we have talked about and she never hooked up with him. she told me how she was sry and wanted to be with me.
2006-08-31 08:36:24 · 22 answers · asked by specialxknc22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so do i stay with her? i kinda thought she could be the one...at least until this situation happened.
what would u guys do?
2006-08-31 08:37:42 · update #1
so do i stay with her? i kinda thought she could be the one...at least until this situation happened.
so what would you guys do? and why?
2006-08-31 08:39:59 · update #2
Nope..
She cannot be trusted out of your sight so you will never be able to trust her...
2006-08-31 08:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people get confused and need some time to think. If she really did not hook up with him like she said then maybe its better that she thought it over now instead of later in the future. If your relationship otherwise is good then I think that this could be worked out. If she is still distant and not acting the same as she use to then maybe either she lied to you and did hook up with him or she is still thinking about him.
2006-08-31 08:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave her alone and pray to God that HE blesses you with someone who truly loves you and wants you to be in their life. You don't need someone who is going to play with your heart or your mind. She puts you on the back burner for someone she had relations with last summer and now she is confused? Tell me again why you are with her and not someone better? This is the 2nd time let her go and move on with your life. When you use the word LOVE it affects everything. Now you know that she played you last summer and it should have ended then but it didn't and now she does it again. Let her go and find your own happiness with someone who really wants you.
2006-08-31 08:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright u need to ask her if she really liked this guy at camp fi she said yea while she was there and now she is just saying she likes u cause she wont see him tell next summer and is with u for the rest of the year, then its time to take out the trash and dump her......good luck=)
2006-08-31 08:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by blanket56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
summer's are weird-just don't count the summer-count the time together before summer and the time starting now-everyone needs a break during the summer-obviously he might not of been what she thought and to her your better, she missed you. Do tell her that you don't want to be totally put on the backburner like that again.
2006-08-31 08:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I strongly suggest u need to break up. It'll not be long until the next summer comes. When she's gettin confused it jus means she's not serious in ur relationship.
2006-08-31 08:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by winterblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trust has been broken so there's not really any point of taking her back. if there is no trust its vary hard to make a relationship work, but if you decide to stay with her you guys will have a lot to work on.
2006-08-31 08:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted to be with you she would of stayed with you....your to young to be worried about bs like that and her not knowing........trust me........I dated a girl for 5 years we broke up after a bunch of stuff went down and she ended up married with a kid 1 year later.......crazy ****.....dont waste your time.
2006-08-31 08:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be careful about this and what you decide to do. It sounds like she still has feelings for this guys, or that she can easily be atttracted to someone else who is giving her the attention and affection she loves.
2006-08-31 08:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been thru this. so plz belive me when i tell you, drop the bit** and run, she lied to you bro. you can find better,it might take a little while,but you will. A ***** can always find someone,It takes good guys a little longer
2006-08-31 08:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I could never see myself with anyone who can forget about me so easily.
2006-08-31 08:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋