Do you think the sexual draw is developed over a period of time .Will you marry a person you are not attracted towards initially and then allow the attraction to build up or do you think it does not happen that way and it could lead to failure in a relationship even when the opposite person is attracted towards you and is also a bice Human being
2006-08-31 08:29:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its nice and not bice a typing error
2006-08-31 08:32:50 · update #1
Yes,,,LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT HAPPENS....but not to all...it all depend on the character of the person.....if at first glance there is no chemistry....you can still meet and know more about it.....infact thats better...SLOW AND STEADY WINS TEH RACE
2006-08-31 18:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go Pandora the Cat very good answer. I do exactly the same thing. Instant attraction or chemistry is usually nothing more than Lust and will not result in a lasting relationship of any kind.
2006-08-31 09:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Trixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flow Pandora the Cat very good answer. I do precisely the same aspect. instant charm or chemistry is in a lot of situations not something more effective ideal than Lust and could not carry about a protracted-lasting courting of any type.
2016-12-06 01:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've taken chemistry, then you know that some chemical reactions take longer than others, but they do eventually happen. I think it's best if you just like the person for themselves rather than lust after them, because there comes a point in all relationships when you ask yourself "What did I ever see in this person", well that's when you remember that you like them as a person and for who they are.
2006-08-31 08:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by sheila c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and women are not typically as visual as men. It takes me far more than a moment or a first impression to feel chemistry with anyone. I start to feel it when I am around that person, and the way they treat me makes me feel good about myself. If they appreciate my toughts and feelings, and care what I think about things, and accept our differences....I want them to feel good aas well. When I start to like them even more as I get to know more about them, I sometimes feel chemistry.
If I ever feel more instant chemistry with anyne, before getting to know them, I am wise enough to realize that it is only infatuation based on sex, and probably not much more. I force myself to slow down and to see if there is any more before getting involved sexually. If there isn't, I quickly lose interest.
2006-08-31 08:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initial attraction is important, but what i think is more important is that you are not UNattracted- the chemistry part could grow, but not if it SUCKS from the beginning. Think about it- one of the funniest people in the nation is Jay Leno, and he is a very ugly guy.
2006-08-31 08:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most often it is after we really know someone that we love them,feel love for them. So if you like the person,enjoy their company. You will either make a good friend or find there is something more. Good things rarely come easy.
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2006-08-31 08:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is. Looks are important at first but sometimes a person may grow on you with their other qualities and that may make them even more appealing to you
2006-08-31 08:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who was not attracted to her NOW Husband of 3 yrs., AT ALL....She was debating so hard and long if she should continue to date him because he was just not cute. They are so much more in love than ever and just had a baby boy yesterday...
Looks aren't everything Love is within....
2006-08-31 08:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, initial is like an animal attaction, but hanging out is a more lasting enduring love because you would know the other person better.
2006-08-31 08:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋