It's your wedding and it should be as you wish. I don't blame you either, too many people seem to over indulge at weddings and such, and you don't want your special day to be remembered by a loved ones embarrassing moment. I would simply place a small card in with the wedding invitations that states that there will be no alcoholic beverages served during the reception, and that you appreciate everyone cooperation in this regard. Anyone who doesn't like it - doesn't have to be there. If you want to spring it on them as a surprise, just have some punch and nothing else at the wedding. Either way odds are you will get a lot of complaints as well as criticism - but hang in there, as you need to make it the way you want it
2006-08-31 08:46:15
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answered by buggsnme2 4
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You should mention it in your invitation (as a courtesy to your guest). If invites are already out and this was not added, then make sure you tell/ask family and friends that no alcohol is being served and to please honor your wishes for the day.
If the reception is being held in a place where there is a bar, make sure you have a sign posted before entering the reception hall that states that alcohol is not permitted inside - or something to that effect. Some reception areas will have an easel with the wedding party's name before entering the reception. A sign below this would catch the guests' eye.
Keep in mind that there is a toast to be made at the celebration. Sparkling cider or sparkling cranberry grape is delicious!
2006-08-31 17:13:12
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answered by lilmizwiz 2
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I think you should tell them...people invited to weddings generally expect that there will be cocktails. While it is personal preference and I certainly respect the fact that you don't drink...you are hosting an event as much as you are getting married, and you may want to consider your guests, even with a limited cocktail hour or a cash bar. But if you don't plan to have booze, definitely tell them...people generally need to know the bar situation, whether or not they will need to bring money for cash bar, whether or not they plan to bring alcohol to the hotel afterwards, etc.
2006-08-31 15:59:08
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answered by LA 2
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You should at least have a cash bar so that those who want to have a drink can. Why impose what you like or dislike on your guests? Keep in mind that your wedding day will feel like it's over in about 4 seconds, and weather someone has a cocktail or not won't matter a bit in the end.
2006-08-31 15:38:16
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answered by Wesleystock 2
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You have to tell your guests (include it in the invitation) especially if your friends and family do drink, people look at weddings as an opportunity to get drunk off their @$$es for no aparent reason other than to make themselves look like fools and embarass the bride and groom. You must tell them or you will have some pissed off people at your wedding who will probably end up leaving early (which may work out for the best). What am I talking about? Don't tell them, that way they'll leave early and leave you and your honey to get down to business.
2006-08-31 15:42:21
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answered by sarahsmiles1222 3
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Many people go to a reception expecting to drink, so it would be important to state that you wish for there to be no alcohol. If your family drinks and so do your friends, what is the big deal? Unless they get obnoxious and out of hand? I know receptions are supposed to be all about "ME ME ME" but you want people to relax and have a good time also. If it's about money -- have a cash bar. It may be a very short recepion with barely any dancing!
2006-08-31 15:37:40
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answered by jennw33 3
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Just tell them how you feel, that you want it to be a Non-Alcohol Wedding. After all, it is the Event that should matter to your friends not if there will be Booze there. Good-Luck and Congrats!!
2006-08-31 15:34:58
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answered by trisha 3
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I am not having alcohol either at my wedding. But I figure they will figure it out on there own. Everyone should know I don't drink.
2006-08-31 15:39:26
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answered by Susa 3
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Tell them before the wedding. Some (perhaps a good number) of your guests may be annoyed. On the other hand, if you marrying a muslim (or you are), then it will make perfect sense.
2006-08-31 15:36:53
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answered by jimbomediterraneo 2
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if you're against them drinking also, you need to put this on a note inside the invitation or if it's just you that would prefer to stay sober, tell them B.Y.O.B.!! they'll appreciate a heads up before showing up to a dry ordeal. alcohol always make weddings a little more enjoyable, easier to talk to those you don't know, etc...
congratulations!!!
2006-08-31 15:33:24
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answered by nadadizzyblonde 2
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