i find it really annoying when my boyfriend stares at a beautiful lady. does every guy do this? why? not to sound ego-tistical here, but i am a very attractive girl and i get a lot of attention when we go out. is he insecure in this or just being the man that he is?
2006-08-31 08:28:15 · 19 answers · asked by h_nanny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For any women to accept as fact that men have no self control over what they stare at validates this behavior and suggests that we are all animals. What's next could we persuade you to excuse us for cheating because that's how we're built? Yes, we look, we all look, both men and women, women just do it in more subtle ways but we don't have to stare, we all have control over staring. If it truly annoys you, you have to tell your boyfriend that it hurts you and that you don't want him to stare at other women. If he doesn't show any concern for your feelings then it should be obvious that he doesn't respect you enough to care. Whack him over the head every time he stares it's call negative reinforcement and it works on all dogs or tell him to bugger off because the problem isn't just his roaming eyes. You can do better.
2006-08-31 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by benjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with you. It is just a natural thing for men to do and it really is not controllable. Women do the same thing just not as much. Don't worry about, you can even make jokes about what he was looking at like you liked it too.
2006-08-31 08:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the insecure one!
Men are more "Visually" stimulated than women. There's nothing wrong with him, but there IS something wrong with you, for making a big stink about it.
Leave the man alone, and quit worring about it. Get some self-confidence, and it won't matter that he looks, cause he's with you in the end.
Otherwise, if you keep pushing him on this subject, you'll push him right into one of those pretty girls arms & it'll be all your fault!
With no one else to blame but you!
2006-08-31 08:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
When you get a straight serious answer on this-email me will yah? I am having the same problem with my man. Good Q!
2006-08-31 08:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys would be boys... that is their nature so no matter how pretty you are you're man would still look for other girls... you just have to accept this fact. anyway, if your guy truly loves you then you don't have to worry with that. he's still by your side no matter what...
2006-08-31 08:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by pink2litle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Send me a pic and I'll stare at that, too. Although I might have my pants down around my ankles when I do.
2006-08-31 08:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by jeff15116 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only the straight ones.
2006-08-31 08:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, yes! Stair, only on rare occasions.
2006-08-31 08:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by jeff_kotowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men look hun.......i let my man look all he wants...as long as his heart stays with me
he even has hot girls on his barricks walls...does it bother me? no because he wants me most of all.....
i have told him to look all he wants but never touch, the only hot girl he is allowed to touch is me!
2006-08-31 08:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by McRach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, just about every guy does it... i bet guys stare at you as you pass too... ;)
you could stare at attractive guys, just to annoy your bf!! :D
2006-08-31 08:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋