2006-08-31 08:12:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not an easy one to deal with. I've been mourning over my broken heart for 2 years now and I have isolated myself from society and "normality" for so long, I've forgotten how to live. All my mourning and hoping for that which could never be has done is cause me more suffering. Do yourself a favour, allow yourself time to shed the necessary tears, have the necessary mood swings and take as much time out as you need. Thereafter, embrace all the memories that brought you comfort and warmth and forget those that brought you sadness. Be content with the fact that you were one of the few souls on this earth to actually truly experience the power of love and don't allow a single soul, whether you love them or not, to turn that love into hate. You're not the problem, you're undoubtedly the stronger lover in the relationship. You'll be fine, I know because I've been where you are and I'm sure you'll be able to deal with it better than I have. Be around friends and family who bring you a sense of happiness and security and if you need your space, you need your space...do what's going to make your spirits feel happier than what they are feeling now. It eventually boils down to forcing yourself by means of pretence to ultimately move on, and that way you'll end up excepting the situation is insolvable and you'll end up moving on involuntarily. Hope this helps. Hugz
2006-08-31 08:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indulge the misery. Have a good hard cry. Play some sad music. Make yourself a gin martini with three olives. After a while, perform a ceremonial act. Write the person's name on a piece of paper and burn it. It will help you to release the misery to which you feel.
The risk of heart break is part of falling in love. The misery shall pass soon enough.
2006-08-31 15:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go away on its own it does take time,but in the mean time keep your self busy,And live your life. Don't isolate your self. if you need to talk to some one do so let it out,i will tell you i was with some one for 6 years and we have been split for 2-3 years now i am engaged to some one else but the pain is still there a little bit i will always love my ex but i am not in love with him so this goes to show you it is very hard exspecially if its your first love. Good luck to you. If you need some one to talk to eamil me we can talk.
2006-08-31 15:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st is always the hardest. im not sure how i handled it i cryed like every day for 3 weeks. but my mum just told me that he was a cheating bastard that is going to come begging back to you so dont go back & he'll feel the same pain. He still trys 2 come back 2 me & it's been a year.lol. trust me you'll wonder why you every even dated him in the first place but it'll take some time.just dont remember any of the good things that happend.
-Ember
2006-08-31 15:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain won't just go away, work through it, talk to friends, lean on family members, hang out with people who love you. draw, write, watch movies. It'll hurt like hell for awhile, but the pain'll subside and you'll have learned alot that will help you in the future.
2006-08-31 15:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by WonderWhy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't make it go away it just takes time, staying active as much as it hurts is helpful. Avoid laying around in bed all day no matter how appealing it seems.
2006-08-31 15:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy271000 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quick!!! Go find a cute boy and tell him to give you a kiss!
Kidding aside - it will pass hon...and probably sooner than you think. Just say, "NEXT!" and wait for the next guy to come along...and hang onto your heart tight until you're sure he's THE one...someday.
2006-08-31 15:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time usually heals a broken heart and keep yourself busy!
2006-08-31 16:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Weasel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to stay active. Hang out with your friends. Talk on the phone. Go for walks or runs. You have to get used to thinking about other things.
2006-08-31 15:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you shouldn't feel pain you should feel angry any way don t care about him find an other man because if you show him that you have heart that will please him act like you don t give the shut about him sorry for my language.
2006-08-31 15:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by abd_haf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋