You know when you're in the beginning stages of a relationship, and you call them, and they're busy, or on the other line and ask you to call them back in a specific amount of time...like 10 or 15 minutes, or an hour? How many of you actually call back in that exact amount of time? Or, do you wait longer, because you don't want to appear desperate? lol
(2 hours,58 minutes to go...don't act like i'm the only one watching the clock until it's time to go home. :-p)
2006-08-31 08:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If my bf is busy and asks me to call back, I usually do so 3 hrs later or I don't call back at all. If he really wants to talk to me, let HIM call me back. I refuse to appear desperate or eager.
2006-08-31 08:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I called back within a reasonable amount of time if he said 15 minutes I would wait 45 and say that I got preoccupied with something. I never wanted to appear that desperate even if I was sitting there bored.
2006-08-31 15:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other then there's nothing wrong calling him/her on the exact time he/she gave you.. and it's only on your mind that you'll look desperate if you'll wait longer to call him/her back.. like if he/she told you to call back after 15 mins it means that he/she have time to talk to you and for example you call him/her back after an hour instead of after 15 mins then if he/she is busy it's not his/her fault, it's yours.. and then since you cant get hold of him/her you'll nag and get mad about that issue the moment you see him/her which will lead to an argument and eventually to a big fight and maybe to a break up.. so see, what's the point? it's just a matter of consideration on both part..
2006-08-31 15:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by keiCh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i always wait about an hour or a half ((if i can wait that long!)) and call them back or wait for them to call me back, because its true i dont want to appear desperate and i dont want my man to think im clingy ((because its such an early stage in the relationship that would be nuts!))
2006-08-31 15:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they were busy I'd just say to call me when they wanted to talk.
2006-08-31 15:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by rdnkchic2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait longer, orr just tell him to call me when he is free. that way i dont have to wonder if its the right time to call. and if he doesnt call i move on. if u r not into me enough to call me back then i am not into u enough to worry
2006-08-31 15:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
up to now i'd have phoned after an hour or so but i i'd like not to answer, and see what happens
2006-08-31 15:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it look casual but caring but not over enthusiastic.
2006-08-31 15:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive done the exact time before yea.
like they said,"ok call mr back in like 40 sec."
well idk if they ment that but i called them back in exactly 40 sec.
-Ember
2006-08-31 15:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋