Have you ever asked your wife or gf?

Question

To do something in the bedroom that they refused to do? What? Could something like that split up a marriage or relationship?

My guy keeps wanting have a.n.a.l; even though I say no! I'm tired of him asking! How can I get him to stop?

Answer 1

Just tell him straight up that you will NEVER do it.

He might leave you, but if the puzzy is good probably not.

Plus, if he presses it after that then he has no repect for you.

Answer 2

I have been on both ends of that question as both the person asking and being asked (to do numerous things, lets just leave it at that :D ) It doesn't nessesarily ruin the relationship as long as the person asking knows they are asking something the other person isn't comfortable with and the person being asked doesn't feel like they 'have' to do it because their lover is asking. The key, not only in bed but in relations in general, is communication. If someone is worth your time in bed they are worth your cander. You should be comfortable with your lover(s) to the point that you can tell them what you want and give them honest opinions as to where you stand with regard to their fantasy.

Answer 3

yes swallow and anal i do not mean to be offensive here but she says she wants to please me then she says ok not those things and i say ok how about a nice facial for you and she says no. But being on the other side of that relationship i have to respect that she dosent want that so i dont push it. if 2 people love each other it shouldnt end a relationship but then again if you love that person why not just do what they ask or at least try it a few times untill you get comfortable or used to it.

Answer 4

Theres a time and a place for everything. IF she says no leave her alone, because may not be in the mood. She'll tell you or you'll know when she's ready. But making someone do something against their will may cause the relationship crumble

Answer 5

Nope. I've had some, kind of, odd faces like, not disgusted but kind of interested...yet...still almost weirded out.................lol. Not gonna go into detail on what as it would probably not be up anyone's alley lol.......but it was fun, and I believe it strongly strengthens the relationship, and brings the two of you much closer. Freakyness/Kinkyness is a part of a relationship at times so if it splits someone up, then they shouldn't have been together to begin with.

Answer 6

Yes! Especially if the person has personal reasons for not wanting to perform those acts. I am in this same situation and my boyfriend is trying to push oral sex on me. I have been in a bad situation with this before and it will take me a while before I chose to perform oral on anyone. It's just like when a woman is raped. It will take her a while to trust anyone with her body. The more the other partner forces her to do so the longer it will take her to become comfortable enough to take that step.

Answer 7

Only if you keep asking over and over, or it is something completely crazy. I have and if she says no I back off. It has never been the reason that a relationship has ended.

Answer 8

Not really, my gf has always been pretty cool with trying new things. I asked her to let me stick it in her butt once, she said no, but in the heat of the moment once when we were staying out of town i was hittin it doggy and i put it in for a while. so no pretty much anything i have wanted to do ive done at least once...

Answer 9

my fiance always ask to do something in the bedroom that i refuse..And ive been with him for 5 yrs it hasnt split us up..But it is very annoying and it does piss me off..So there are arguments but nothing to break us up

Answer 10

Probably not.

I would assume that they would just tell you no or if you are unsure if they will refuse then just ask them. Who knows? They may say yes.