I am not a bad looking guy and have a heart of gold I have never had a problem a pulling girls until now ! it feels like I have lost what I thought I always had and that is pulling power !! anyone make me some suggestions ( please )
2006-08-31 07:56:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it some time, everyone goes through a slump every now and then.
2006-08-31 07:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had it go back to what you had. What have you changed recently? Have you let yourself go a bit, not looking quite as funky as you used to? Or have you been stressed at work and that is affecting the other areas in your life? I think that you have to start fancying yourself first and then others will follow suit. Go to the gym or do yoga, then get a few new items of clothing. Don't show desperation. And don't expect women to do all the chasing, because i wouldn't ask you out even if you were the most amazing guy on this earth. And expect a lot of women not to take you up on your offers - but some will. Just have patience and confidence in yourself. If you have true confidence and self belief it will radiate from you and be noticed by those around you. And fill your time with other things than thinking about this topic, and i'm sure you'll find someone along the way. And one more thing - keep the heart of gold!!!!!
2006-08-31 08:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by lushy_lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your self esteem is struggling. Take a realistic look at yourself, have you changed? If not then it's prob just the way things are, life's like that, people come and go and someone is still out there for you. Maybe change the places you hang out. If you have changed, is it for the worst? Put on weight etc, let your self go? Then do something about it, it's in your power to change things. .
2006-08-31 09:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's alright.. life is not always on the top nor at the bottom.. you have to experience life as it is.. and it doesnt mean that it's treating you bad it's just that life compose of ups and downs.. and for sure one of this days you'll be on the top again.. and maybe you should stop looking around and have some break coz there's someone out there lookin for you and she cant take hold of you because you're too busy looking around.. enjoy life, enjoy being single! there's always a lot to learn in life! *wink*
2006-08-31 08:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying to hard or look desperate and there's nothing more off putting. I always found that I used to get chatted up most when I was in a relationship cos you're not trying and you give off an air of happiness and confidence.
2006-08-31 08:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by cornflake girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing differently? Are you flirting in a way that you never did? Are you changing the type of women you go for? Something's changed, so figure out what it is and go back to the old way...I'm sure it's just the type of girls you are going for. If you had it before, I'm sure you still have it....good luck.
2006-08-31 07:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it should be age thing... accept it. Your age radiates somehow no matter how young you look.
I was gonna say 'go for older' women but they quite often do not have the sex drive and curiosity to fancy men... any men. Young girls do have the drive and the curiosity but except for some most tend to fancy younger guys...
2006-08-31 08:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by cannadoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a big baby, we all go through the lean times. its good to not be involved 24/7. gives you a chance to just hang out with mates for a change.
Pashka.
2006-08-31 10:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I fancy you maybe you should try new things or maybe you should try getting a new idea of what kind of girl you like!
2006-08-31 08:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know! maybe its a circulation problem..a good suggestion is needed here...i know...yes its coming to me now...never put anything red into a white wash! and for gods sake NEVER tie your shoelaces in a swinging door..nasty
2006-08-31 11:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by polarized bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋