2006-08-31 07:37:47 · 24 answers · asked by Jasmine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well almost.
2006-08-31 07:45:01 · update #1
Ok...well im convinced. I know what the right thing to do is.
2006-08-31 07:53:09 · update #2
teen sex is not safe
2006-08-31 07:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well the first outcome is that your form of protection fails or you don't use it correctly or you "forget" to use it, in which case it becomes unsafe sex... pregnancy, aids, STD's,etc. But you already knew that. I suppose the next outcome is that things don't work out with the guy after you have emotionally and physically committed a lot to him. Giving your body to someone and sharing that intimacy is really special. Call it corney but it's true and I know that because I was highly promiscuous throughout high school and college. I've been out of college for 2 years now and now realize how much I lost. It's a complicated series of emotions but trust me that a lot of people end up lonely, hurting, angry and feeling revengeful... then sex becomes less important and then YOU become less important to yourself. My personal advice is to just not do it. I know my answer isn't typical and seems "uncool" but I'm 24 now and can tell you that the outcomes of safe teen sex may be something that you have to deal with on at least an emotional level down the road. I hope this is all helpful and not condescending.
2006-08-31 07:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lee V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very powerful act--it is so powerful and meaningful that it is the only act which can lead to both life and death. By having sex, you can experience something so high and wonderful as being a new mother and/or you can experience so low and horrific as dying slowly to a veneral disease (not to mention so many veneral diseases which are not fatal).
Contrary to popular lingo, there isn't actually any such thing as "safe sex" in the sense that any forms of birth control (chemical or physical) can prevent any of the possible outcomes 100% of the time. Take condoms for example: did you know that in practice they are effective 85% of the time? That means in 1 to 2 times out of 10, they will fail--that's an awful rate to be called "safe," isn't it?
And let's talk about the emotional consequences. Sex outside of marriage warps true love into lust because the message partners give one another changes from "I love you" to "I want to use you to seek my own physical pleasure" over time. This partner isn't interesting in securing your peace of mind and stability by marrying you before asking all those things of you before marriage.
Never, never have sex with anybody that you are concerned would not be a good father or mother to your potential child/children. This person is not likely to be a good and loving partner to you, either. A good "test" of whether someone is loving and generous enough to be a good parent is whether or not he or she is willing to commit themselves wholeheartedly to your good and personal welfare. The only way to prove that a person is willing to commit like this is marriage. Not even engagement has really gone "all the way" in showing this to the potential father/mother of your children.
Thank you for reading. I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you find what you are searching for. God Bless!
2006-08-31 07:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional havoc... People who are not experienced in relationships tend to take things too personally, and feel their life is "over" if the relationship breaks up.
On the other hand, falling on your face and getting up again is a good life experience.
By "teen" sex I mean teens of legal age, or very close to it. There are many more reprocussions of having sex for younger kids.
2006-08-31 07:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant, getting an STD, being labeled a hoe or easy. Being depressed. Getting dumped and having the guy tell everyone because that's all he wanted in the first place....etc. Just because YOU think it's safe doesn't mean it will be. A lot can go wrong. You just have to be prepared because mistakes happen. That's why it's illegal to do it before 18.
2006-08-31 07:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as safe teen sex. Condoms are not 100 percent and are 80% or less when it comes to ST D's. Consider it playing Russian Roulette.
2006-08-31 07:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pregnancy, abortion, having to ingest the morning after pill, and just sex.
What a dumbass, a condom is more than 80% effective when used properly. It's in the 90's.
2006-08-31 07:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is nerver 100% safe. So: unwanted pregnancy, infection, bleeding, failure, frustration, embarassment, getting caught by friends and or adults.
2006-08-31 07:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a new math question? Statistics course? Boy, the math curriculum has changed since I went to school.
2006-08-31 07:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by thegodfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of outcomes ! He may tell all his friends, and bad and nasty rumors may get started! There are a hole lot of outcomes that you may not like!
2006-08-31 07:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by tweetysangel210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋