2006-08-31 07:37:43 · 35 answers · asked by littlepixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 20 years old too
2006-08-31 21:32:36 · update #1
depending on how old u r if ur scared u shud talk 2 him bout it and if he wont wait he aint worth it
2006-08-31 07:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are scared it may be because you aren't ready. There is a difference between natural apprehension of something new and being scared because you're not really up for it, you just think it's expected of you. Only go ahead if you feel ready, don't allow peer presure or b/f pressure to make you do it, you will only regret it later. It's your body and you have the power over what you do with it, just as you are the one who will have to live with the consequences of what you do. Sorry if that's heavy, basically give it serious thought and don't be pushed into something you're not ready for!
2006-08-31 09:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to be sure why you want to do that...it is because of pressure, because everybody does, because i want to know what does it feel like...all those reasons are not enough, besides for your question i assume you are no more that 17, you are very young, been scared is a signal that you are not ready yet. So it would be a good idea for you to wait...don't be in such a hurry, there is a time for everything, the right time for you will come, you will be fine. Take care.
2006-08-31 07:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by fireangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound to me like you are not ready to sleep with your boyfriend. You will know when the time is right. Dont rush into it when your not ready. Hope this answer helps x x
2006-08-31 08:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? His loud snoring, bad body odor, or
he rolls over and crushes you when he's asleep with you?.
After all, you are "sleeping" with him only, right? But if you mean having sex with him, then ask him to use a condom, no matter what!
There is no right or wrong in having sex but its wrong if you don't ask him to use a condom. Wait till marriage then have sex. Who does it nowadays. But its better to have it after crossing the
teenagers hurdle.
2006-08-31 07:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Roti-Prata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't. The fact that you are scared is a sign that mentally you probably aren't ready. Don't do it because you feel you should, but when youare ready, unless you are likely to regret it.
2006-08-31 07:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer the above people....He must be about 33 - 34 and still living with his mother..no wonder he is scared!
2006-08-31 10:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by polarized bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I have seen some positive answers. Sweetie sex is not a way of life. It is just that sex. Don't do it. Want for the MAN who will respect you and honor you as you should be honored as a women. It is not worth. If he has to have sex let him go, but don;t let yours go
2006-08-31 07:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chiefs Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before you do that make sure he gets you good health insurance to pay the doctor bills, then make him go get all the stuff you will need to take care of your baby..stroller, crib,car seat, and tons of diapers..then you should be all set and ready to have at it without anything to be afriad of!
2006-08-31 07:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just sleep with him or there will be nothing to remember - you could trying giving him a good old shag while you are there!
2006-08-31 07:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Peter C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋