it's to late. I know it's best to be in a marriage to bring a child in the world, but do I have to wait until I remarry by then it may be to late.
2006-08-31 07:30:06 · 14 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweet heart. I was the same age when I wanted a child. I was not married yet. I was still going through endless relationship until, one night I stopped and prayed and ask God to send the man he would want into my life, 5 years later, that man came, I truly believe he was sent from God. We married 2 year later and God bless us with a beautiful baby girl. I was just like you I wanted to hurry and have a child because I felt I was getting older. But God said not yet. And when I had my beautiful baby, I was 35 years old.
May I suggest that you do wait to be married, it is so much better when the father is not in and out of the childs life. Another suggestion if you pray and wait on God you will truly honor God and be blessed by God. These are only suggestions.
2006-08-31 07:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chiefs Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late? You are only 27 years old! You have another 10 years before its too late and its too important to do for such a silly reason. You want your child to be born with every advantage don't you? Like parents that love each other? If you have one now, with someone you don't have a lasting relationship with, you essentially become nothing more than a babysitter every other weekend anyway and thats a completely different thing than being an actual parent.
2006-08-31 14:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the question. Are you looking for offers. How desperate. You need to wait to find a man that would make a good father. Think of your child's welfare. Every child should have a relationship with both their mother and their father. I know sometimes that doesn't work out. But you should at least give your child a headstart to a happy life.
2006-08-31 14:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to have a husband to bring up a child. In a lot of cases a child can be brought up better with one parent than they can be in a family that is always fighting. Good luck to you.
2006-08-31 14:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. My Aunt waited till she was 40 to have her first kid...and boy did she have to go through a lot of artificial insemination and it seemed like a really big hassle...but she really wanted a kid so I guess it was worth it in her eyes...but if you want to raise a kid yourself, do it...if you have the income to support you and a child then I don't think it matters if you are married or not
2006-08-31 14:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Ms. Sasha, who says you have to be married to conceive? If you are mentally and financially able to take care of a child then you do what is best for you.
2006-08-31 14:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yellow-Rose of TX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many single black mothers out there, my mom was one, with three kids and it was hard. so my suggestion would be not to conceive if your not married and have that foundation set up. Especially after that first child and you might want another. you want to keep one man (husband) in your kids life. because growing up and having men appear and disappear isn't healthy for our youth, or you.
much love and good luck
2006-08-31 14:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by BOOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it"s never to late it"s better to wait till you fined the rite one the to bring a kid into an unhappy relationship kid needs both parents
2006-08-31 14:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by 66hamerheadPD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big deal? Why must you have a child? Sigh
2006-08-31 14:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not too late,,,u can wait for 2- 3 years more.....
2006-08-31 14:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by Spaschan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋