I met a man last week at a work convention and I can't stop thinking about him. I have all of his contact information, should i email him even though he is married? Would it be wrong if it is a work contact?
2006-08-31 07:24:40 · 34 answers · asked by valeryarbelo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you should not
2006-08-31 07:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by knmardix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea. You will only get more interested in him and if things come to worst, you could destroy a family. You are still on time...don't do it.
How would you feel if you were married and a woman decided to start emailing your husband? There are so many unmarried men, you should look into emailing a single man.
2006-08-31 07:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by deejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt email him you dont know if his wife will be reading his emails and will cause you trouble the last thing you need is trouble. Also, no offense but you need to have more digniity and pride your beautifu inside and out all women are and we should show that. Any man would be lucky enough to have a women who has pride and dignity . As well, if you were married you wouldnt really want your husband sneaking around emailing another woman would u.? think about it before you take that step into a relationship with a married man. last but not least if hes gonna sneak around and talk to you u dunno if hes sneaking around talking to other women as well.
2006-08-31 07:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sw3ettyyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to chat w/ the guy, especially if its work related. Some guys like having gals that are friends, even if they're married. Now, if you're trying to jump in the sack with him, you've entered a much riskier area. It all depends on your maturity and ability to control your urges. You probably know the answer already.
2006-08-31 07:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by dwitejones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you email this man. Ok, that email leads to 'something'. He gets a divorce and marries you. Now he is your husband. Do you want other women emailing him just because they can't stop thinking about him?
2006-08-31 07:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Puzzler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel as guilty as you obviously do, I think you know the answer must be no. Work contact means that you have a legitimate work reason to stay in touch. Do you?
2006-08-31 07:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u sure should and tell him for me he is a weak a.s.s cheating loser and i hope both of u get a STD that u cant get rid of bc its ppl like u who ruin familys and lives for no reason otha than ur horny bc they never leave their wives i mean come on what is wrong with u that u cant get a single man u have to ask us if u should go for a married man oh let me guess he says he is unhappy and she dont do this n that honey get a clue they all say that and they never leave their wives they just want a piece of a.s.s on the side i watched the woman i called mom have this done to her and the man i called dad do this to her with my biological mother and let me tell u something the 16 yrs they did this torn her apart and he never left and got a divorce from his wife and it made me sick that the woman i called mom dient divorce him and i told my bio mom n him that they was worthless for doin this to 2 familys i mean come on dont u have any pride in urself !!! grow up!! if u cant get a single man u dont deserve to be with any man!!!!!!!!!!i gotta throw up now u make me sick!! email him this why dont cha.
2006-08-31 07:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think it would be a work contact, then yes. But if you can't stop thinking about him for other purposes then you would be going down a different road.
Its then a judgment call, is he interested in the conversation about extending your friendship to more?
good luck
2006-08-31 07:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by shadowspothost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes contact him. It's fun to be bad. I'd contact a married woman.
2006-08-31 07:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be wrong break it off he's CHEATING on his wife missy!!! STOP MAKING IT SEEM RIGHT TO DO CAUSE IT'S NOT WHY DO GIRLS LIKE YOU EMAIL OR CALL MARRIED GUYS OR GUYS WITH A GF IT'S NOT RIGHT IT JUST MAKES IT EASIER IN THEIR MIND TO CHEAT!!! YOU JUST GIVE HIM A FOOTHOLE TO DO THAT SH!T!!! SO STOP IT NOW I ADVISE YOU VERY STRONGLY TO QUIT IT!!!!!! BESIDES IT MIGHT COME BACK AND BIT YOU IN DA BUTT SOMEDAY!!!
2006-08-31 07:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by shaila f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the guilt in your question, I think you know the answer is no. You sound like you have a good moral compass and you know the right thing to do.
2006-08-31 07:27:03 · answer #11 · answered by Jay F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋