Ive been in heavily interested with this girl for last 7 months
she had a bf when i first met her so i didnt do anything, i assume they are still together, she never talks bout him
ive come to a stage where i cant just wait anymore (not knowing)
im planning on saying this to her.
"I know its a deffinate no right now, but if you didnt have a boyfriend, would you ever want there to be anything between us, its just we dont chat much anymore, and wanted to make sure i wasnt making you feel awkward, like inviting you out places or smsing you, Im cool with just friends if thats all you want. Just didnt want to make things weird between us, even tho ive probably done that now."
Ive been getting mixed signals for a long time, some really good some really bad, so rather than try work it out in my head, i think it is best to get an answer
WHat do you think, should i change it?
2006-08-31 07:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should say that if you said it to me i would not think your creepy i would know exactly what you are going through.
2006-08-31 07:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's flattering in a way, but you might be digging a hole for yourself. Just be her friend and don't pressure her into anything. And then, if she and her boyfriend break up, give her a little time and then ask her something like what you were planning on saying. Or you could start seeing other people in the meantime and getting to know other girls... just in case she and her b/f don't split. Don't try to be exclusive with someone that may never want to be exclusive with you. BE OPEN...BE Young...Be carefree...
2006-08-31 07:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should tell her that. As soon as she breaks up with her boyfriend, just watch for the signals. You guys are probably on the "friends" status and unfortunately...she might just see you as a friend. My best answer to you is...when the moment arises, you might as well tell her. Ask her out for dinner and that might be the obvious signal whether she likes you or not.
2006-08-31 07:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by So... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I hear ANYONE say that, I would go:
"ALERT ALERT, stalking psycho, ALERT ALERT"
Stop being a metrosexual - grap her by the hair and drag her to your lair, punch her bloke in the groin if he tries to interfere
2006-08-31 07:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by dukeguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a great idea that you want to sort this out, but it depends on the girl...if she is a popular snobby one, then dont say it, if she is a kind one, then it would go GREAT..
2006-08-31 07:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by girly girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great the way it is! Good luck! I would definitely get with you if I were her!
2006-08-31 07:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would shorten it up a bit, you're kind of lingering on and on...
but its honest and sincere, just do it, what do you have to lose?
2006-08-31 07:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
2006-08-31 08:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when is it creepy to be honest?
2006-08-31 07:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by unluckyinluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U already asked this question man.But thanks for the pts
2006-08-31 07:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋