I don't know if I can handle this information.....what would you do???
2006-08-31 07:10:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's slept with 50 guys, she's addicted to sex. Sooner or later she will grow tired of you and cheat, if she hasn't already.
There are too many good women out there for you to just settle for some one that you can't trust. Get smart and let her go.
2006-08-31 07:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! It showed a lot of courage on her end to tell you that I am sure. Slept with these guys before you I am assuming? Neither you or her can do anything about her past. If she has been faithful to you during this six months, and treated you well, I would suggest that you move past it. Definitely get her tested. Is it the fact that she has more experience than you in the bedroom that is bothering you? If so, look at it like the sex with her is going to be great because she knows what she is doing and probably has a lot of tricks up her sleves. Also, it appears that she doesn't look at sex as a romantic, sacred thing, but more as a recreational thing. YOu may want to keep that in mind. If you can't get past it, you have only been together for 6 months, just explain to her that you can't handle it and move on. It shouldn't be that hard. Good Luck.
2006-08-31 14:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't handle what? It had nothing to do with you, it was before she met you so whats your problem? Or are you just jealous because you didn't sleep with 50 chicks? Did you not realize that she existed before she met you? Really, what is there for YOU to handle? Its not about you. Would you be happier with a virgin who starts to wonder what its like with other people after she's been with you for a year or two? Who starts to wonder what she might be missing out on? At least your gf will recognize whether or not she has something good...are you maybe worried that she won't see you as something good...or perhaps that you won't 'measure up'? You need to figure out what YOUR issue is with it, because it is yours, not hers. Personally I would take the point of view that she's been there, done that and chose you anyway so you must be doing something right. Best out of 50 is pretty darn good! In the future, don't ask questions you don't really want the answers to. How would you feel about her freaking out about the women you were with before her? You would think it was silly and irrelevant and didn't at all influence the way you feel about her right?
2006-08-31 14:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a valid reason to be concerned. I would go get checked out by a Dr to make sure you don't have anything.
You have been with this girl for 6 months, she is who she is, just because you found out new information shouldn't be a reason to punish her for her past. If however she is still continuing to do so then that's different. Talk to her about it, let her know that it does bother you. But if she is a great person and you are both very happy and faithful to each other then what is the problem.
If a guy sleeps with allot of girls he looked at as a stud...sex is just that sex!
2006-08-31 14:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the guys were before you then you should feel pretty darn good since it means that you are better than all 50 of the other guys since she has kept you around for 6 months. BUt if they were since you have been together I would kick her to the curb. either which way you need to get tested for everything. Truthfully I think she is lieing to you for some reason. about how many. or she is really stupid. Some things you just dont go around bragging about and that is one of them.
2006-08-31 14:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels she can trust u enough to tell u this. i would get tested for std's, but other than that, i see nothing wrong with what she has done. people (men and women) are promiscuous for many reasons, not all of them have to do with being easy or cheap. rape, incest, and molestation survivors OFTEN are promiscuous. some women just consider themselves sexual equals to men (and come on, u gonna say ur a virgin or close to it?? give me a break!!)
the question really is this: is she STILL acting that way, or is she monogamous to u??
2006-08-31 14:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by bbwgoddess60 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether she HAS or HASN'T, doesn't even matter at this point. The fact that she even said it to you, proves she is a major attention seeker or stupid! You would do well to get as far from this one as you can...no telling what kind of "bugs" she's carrying around.
2006-08-31 14:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's experienced...it will make the relationship more fun and this time...it's not the woman who has to size up...it's you! Whatever you guys will be doing in bed, she'll be able to provide you the sexual needs you need since she's experienced.
2006-08-31 14:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by So... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How recently? I would be referring to her in a past tense, (i.e. ex-girlfriend) & run away. (stop @ the Dr.'s office on the way by)
2006-08-31 14:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by donebuiltit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has nothing to do with your friendship. Be a friend and hopefully she is done with that lifestyle.
If you probe deeper my guess she is a victim of child molestation.
Don't hold it against her.
2006-08-31 14:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋