What are the signs to look out for if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Question

I have been having some serious doubts about him although he swears on his kids that he's not...

Answer 1

Here are some things I learned from my ex husband, the Champion Cheater:
1. Extremely jealous
2. Sexual frequency decreases
3. Introduces new things in bedroom out of character for him
4. Working late
5. Hanging out with the "boys" until wee hours of morning
6. Claiming that he got too drunk to drive home so he stayed at his "cousin's" house.
7. Less affectionate towards you
8. Quick to start and argument and storm out in anger
9. Tells you that you are being paranoid about other women when you ask him if he's cheating
10. Unexplained absences with no accountability for that time period.
11. Throws fits of anger if you ask him questions about his fidelity.
12. Being extra sweet for no reason after being a jerk for no reason.
13. Hangup phone calls especially at weird hours
14. Useless trips to the store in which he stops by his "mother's" house to visit for a while.
15. Extremely friendly with other women when out in public.
16. Very territorial about his cellphone.
17. Has to take calls away from you in private.
18. Belittles you frequently.
19. Threatens to leave because he doesn't have to take "this".
20. Tells you he needs space.

Just some quick signs but the list goes on and on.

Answer 2

1. Grumpy or resentful towards you.........you are holding him back from doing his own thing.
2. Doesnt want to have sex as much
3. Wants to go "hang out" with his friends
4. Phone calls are private - has to walk away and talk -
5. Seems distant.

These are all very clear signs. Swearing on your kids doesnt mean zip.........follow him or check the cell phone records.

Answer 3

He swears on the kids he is not so i guess u'd like to think he is not huh? o course we all would but some change and just when u think u know them all of a sudden u dont! But when he quits spending so much time at home or working more or when things in his life starts to change

Answer 4

new underwear,cares what he looks like,lying more than usual,sex could be more or less depending on how far he's taken it with the other person.... I know I sound like an expert in this ,but I have never been cheated on (I don't think) just watched what friends went through.

Answer 5

their mood changes
they dress better
they wear cologne
they brush their teeth more or chew gum
they spend more time away
they have a cell phone n dont let u play with it
they get more calls
they get short with u more
u arent haven sex that often anymore
if he calls u crazy ...then he is cheating (#1) sign
he has a few new friends
him n his friends talk privatly and laugh alot more(they know)
he critisizes u more


shall i go on

Answer 6

one sign is you call him and he acts as if he does not have time to talk ....or he simply does not answer....late nights at work that are not normal.....long periods of time where you have not heard from him or unexplained absences....when a girl gets ur number and crank calls you ......when you find condoms in his car or house that you did not buy together....when the girl shows up at his house with a baby in her hands...when he has a new female friend who he claims is a lesbian

Answer 7

women usually have good instincts about these things so if there are things which r not adding up u r prob right and as there r kids involved he better b telling the truth b/c if hes not id string him up by the balls personally

Answer 8

They start changing and sneak out alot plus they start lying .

Answer 9

Look for lip stick on his johnson, lol. Seriously, if you have a hunch tha he is then post it.

Answer 10

gone without explanation, smells of another girl, not interested in sex with you anymore and really just a gut feeling should tell you.