Please give me practical tips to initiate contact with her. i want to marry her and i just know her name. nothing more. she sits near my seat in office. please tell me how do i make her my wife.
She is very conservative and never gets alone. she is always with her best frnd who is a gal.
u see how much i m in love with her so please help me. my life is in ur hands, friends.
2006-08-31 06:43:59 · 32 answers · asked by nitin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like just infatuation, if you just want a sex ask her a date out.
2006-08-31 06:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, make sure that the girl's best friend doesn't have a thing for you. Then talk to the girl's best friend and see if she has any hot tips to get on the inside.
If you don't like that idea, try inviting BOTH girls out to lunch. If the friend sees that you are a great guy...well, she could fall in love with you (she may be THE ONE and you just don't see it)...or she could say "Hey, I think So-and-so likes you! You should go on a date with him."
Either way, the best friend is usually the best way to go. Unless the best friend is totally psycho jealous.
You could also try being really juevenile and slip her a note "during class".
OOH! Or send her flowers with a blatant card that says "I like you! I'm crazy about you! Give me a shot!"
I probably didn't help at all.
2006-08-31 07:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are infatuated. I strongly doubt we can actually love someone and "just know her name." For all you know, she might be your polar opposite...if possible, sit beside her. Be helpful but not obnoxious or intrusive. Read her moods. After time, if she reacts positively to your presence, initiates talk, makes eye contact and smiles, etc. hesitantly but as calmly as possible, ask her out for a Coke or, if you know something about her, pizza-maybe a beer-, then, if she talks about a movie, an event, etc. get around to that. Keep in mind, you really might not find her so enticing as you think. If you simply want to get in her pants, get her in your bed, you'll have to act like a lying crud...and lure her. Unless she's into no strings attached sex. Then, you can be upfront. Hope all goes well.
2006-08-31 06:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by robert r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start out with making friendly conversation, then ask her if she would like to get coffee or something and go from there, there really is not a easy trick to this, if she is indeed single look on some of the personals ads see if you can find her, and if you can; then bring it up to her like example, “hey I saw your personals ad, why do you need that when there are plenty of guys here that would love to have you”
Long story short just find a way to strike up a conversation with her
2006-08-31 06:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How could you want to marry her if you dont even know her. Maybe you have lust for this woman but not love. You cannot love somebody without knowing who they are as a person. I think you should just try to start a conversation with her, casually, you do work with her and start from there. Once a realtionship of some sort develps as in aquaintance or friend, then you can ask her out on a date or for coffee or whatever. She does not have to be alone in order for you to say hi.
2006-08-31 06:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first get to know her. Start a conversation. Be smooth and not pushy. After a while maybe you could ask both to join you for lunch. After a while, maybe you could ask her out tell her know how you feel. Maybe after you get to know each other, you'll find out that you don't really want to marry her. Take it one step at a time. Good luck!
2006-08-31 06:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by metztli99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit your job as a grand gesture and go from there.
After your relationship get's started you can take your job again cause she'll want to quit out of guilt OR she'll get all creative and keep the relationship completely hidden somehow so both of you can work there and be lovers at the same time.
I have a hunch she likes you to, but with her being conservative your definitely going to have to make the first move.
2006-08-31 06:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First make sure your company policy doesn't prohibit co-workers from dating. Then, stop obsessing over this woman and don't harrass her, as that is also likely against company policy. You don't even know anything about this somen other than her name, so you really can't say that you love her and want to marry her. That is just your fantasy. Best to keep it that way.
2006-08-31 06:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try Romantic Gestures. give her a rose...signed secret admiror be friendly to her. be sweet to her. let her know you like her but dont come on to strong it will throw her off. lol.. and i cant ignore that you want marriage with her. you need to get to know her first. take it slow. dont rush into something that might just be a fantasie to you. good things come to those who wait. go on a couple of dates with her. find out things you never knew about her. theres nothing pratical about something that needs room to grow. Have conversations with her. remember office policie though. your going to have to just take the pludge and talk to her within the croud. dont do something that might freak her out . cant rush these things. You just have to let it happen. thats all i can tell you. i hope it helped.
2006-08-31 06:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off stop calling her a gal. and you need to relax on the whole love & marry bit if you only know her name. tell her good morning a couple of times and good night when your leaving. after a couple days throw in a "would you like to go get a drink" good luck
2006-08-31 06:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by chris j 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude... slow down. You might want to get to know her hbefore you think abour marrying her! Ask her if she wants to get a cup of coffee or just stop her one day and give her a compliment, smile, and walk away like Rico Suave....
Good Luck!
2006-08-31 06:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by kisme86 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋