You could be right....or you could be crazy.
She doesn't HAVE to show you anything. But this sounds like a fairly simple request to fill, either to quiet down a nasty family situation OR to prove that "sister, you're REALLY nuts....SEE!", as she triumphantly waves the records at you, rubbing your nose in the print lines, as she proves it's all a mistake.
It might not be a bad idea to see about counseling, for you (and your husband if you can talk him into it). Either something's going on--like he's fooling around--and there's matters between you affecting the marriage, or you've got some problems in terms of interpreting situations. Insufficient data for me to judge.
If you're worried about the money, clergypeople are very often trained to do some counseling, and many of them have gotten past the "forgive, because Deity commands it" mindlock.
I hope that things can get cleared up for you. You are in a very rough place. Good luck!
2006-08-31 06:55:54
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answered by samiracat 5
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Even if it is not your husband, she is most likely guilty of something she don't want you to find out. If she cares that you are hurting because you think something is going on with them and she does get a bill, which she wouldn't have a bill if it is the company's phone, then she should have no problem showing it to you. I would think she would be showing it to you without you asking her to do so because you are her sister and she would want to show you that everything is ok so you can be happy. Don't ask any more. Let it go for now and when they think that you gave up on everything and they think you are calm, she will slacken up and at some point leave her bill around where you will find it, then you check it for yourself. If you are pushing now for the truth and if she is sleeping with your husband, they will try to hide all the evidence and you might not get to find out what's going on. I am really sorry to hear that you are going through all this. I know that must be nerve wrecking. What ever the result turns out to be, don't worry, God will deal with them.
2006-08-31 13:52:04
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answered by killerlegs 3
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Call Cheaters, they will bust her. or try to hack her Verizon account online and get her phone records, it's really not that hard. I thought my husband was cheating too, and I hacked everything on the computer, and got spy software, just to find out I was crazy. But it's worth a shot to give you a piece of mind.
2006-08-31 13:45:25
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answered by DnBprincess850 5
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Are you crazy?? Well if your not then I would say that your Hubey and your sis have a lil sumthin' goin on! A couple ways to tell are if he misses work and you think that he is there, or he tells you that he was just working late! If he loves you then he wouldn't cheat on you, but maybe he doesn't love you anymore! And it sounds like your sister is a jerk or she is just really trying hard to keep something from you! Well I hope that you will be okay and that your Hubey isn't cheating on you with your sis! Well good luck with finding out!
2006-08-31 13:49:13
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answered by FLIRT 2
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I think you're probably right. If your sister wasn't banging your husband, she'd show you the bill.
Where is your husband's cell phone bill? Ours has very call logged on it. Or, when your husband is asleep, take a look at his phone.
2006-08-31 13:43:01
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answered by Otis F 7
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How do they act around one another? If she won't show you the bill then your gut feeling may be right. Don't allow her to be alone with your husband. Has he started treating you differently?
2006-08-31 13:46:38
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answered by trueamericancherokee 1
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If you can, check your husband's phone records. The unfortunate thing is, if your gut tells you something is going on, you are probably right.
2006-08-31 13:45:27
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answered by Just Me 3
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It sounds like she is guilty. If she didn't have anything to hide she would be more than willing to show you the information you're asking for. I am sorry!! You are NOT crazy! You're smart to trust your instincts.
2006-08-31 13:45:19
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answered by destini'smom 6
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you are not crazy!!!! she's lying. lookat your husband's cell phone bill. put a hidden tape recorder or video camera in your house. call cheaters.
2006-08-31 13:44:34
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answered by christy o 1
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That is B.S. she is sleeping with your husband....if she won't even do that well then she is hiding something...you feel me?....why don't you question him more....he is your husband you should know him really good if you married him....I am about to get married and I can tell when my fiance is lieing about anything....good luck....
2006-08-31 13:42:26
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answered by MZ.LANDA 2
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