Ive been in heavily interested with this girl for last 7 months
she had a bf when i first met her so i didnt do anything, i assume they are still together, she never talks bout him
ive come to a stage where i cant just wait anymore (not knowing)
im planning on saying this to her.
"I know its a deffinate no right now, but if you didnt have a boyfriend, would you ever want there to be anything between us, its just we dont chat much anymore, and wanted to make sure i wasnt making you feel awkward, like inviting you out places or smsing you, Im cool with just friends if thats all you want. Just didnt want to make things weird between us, even tho ive probably done that now."
Ive been getting mixed signals for a long time, some really good some really bad, so rather than try work it out in my head, i think it is best to get an answer
WHat do you think, should i change it?
2006-08-31 06:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask "whatever happened to that bf of yours- did you send him back for repairs?" or something. Only go off into your long maybe-more-than-friends speech if she indicates she's single.
2006-08-31 06:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by C-Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing she can say is no that she is not interested in you. You say that she has not chatted with you much lately. Don't get your hopes up to high. It's better going in thinking she will say no that way you dont fool yourself before hand and break down in front of her.
2006-08-31 06:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That actually sounds really good. It is better to get everything out in the open rather than not ever know. At least after you talk to her you will know where you stand. Good Luck
2006-08-31 06:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, saying this to her would make her feel weird. I would say it straight and right to the point. Say "Hey, how are you and your boy/f doing? I never hear you talking about him anymore. Are you two still together?" Just like that! Then see what she says.
2006-08-31 06:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO thats good very good i wouldnt feel awkward or anything that would make me feel the most comfortablist
2006-08-31 06:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. I think you should avoid saying the mixed signals thing. I doubt she will appreciate you telling her that.
2006-08-31 06:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shut up man. that was not nice
Just ask her how she feels about her bf
2006-08-31 06:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cool...go for it and just ask how she feels,
2006-08-31 06:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋