Do girls like guys who are very good looking and very nice and treat them like princesses?

Question

Im not going to bo modest i am moderatly goodlooking i am an abercrombie model. I have so much trouble with girls though because they always leave me even though i do nothing wrong. i give them everything they want. and i love doing it. i feel so good when i give the girls im with someting and i get to see them smile. do girls really want a guy to treat them like **** sometimes to make the relationship more exciting. i dont like being an *** to the girl i love...any advice from anyone would be nice

Answer 1

First of all you sound a little cocky which is the biggest turn off ever. You may not want to be, but the fact that you needed to say "I'm an abercrombie model" shows that you think this makes you cool. It doesn't. That's like saying "I drive a porsche" Who cares? Get over it.
Second- yes, most girls want their guy to be a guy. That means you have to be a little douchey sometimes. No one wants a push-over or someone who always agrees and goes along with you. Most women do not want to date a jerk, but they want someone with their own ideas, opinions and needs.

Answer 2

well as the saying goes - "good guys always finish last" however in your case maybe you're going for the wrong type of girl. Personally speaking, if a guy was to treat me like a princess id NEVER let him go! However many girls use guys like you for the presents ect etc and really thats not what you're looking for now is it?
I wouldnt change who you are - maybe just change the type of women you go for.
By the way - what the hell is an Abercrombie model??? Im from Ireland - never heard of it!!

Answer 3

I would never like my guy givin me all I want and nodding his head to everythin I say. It would make me smile probably at that moment but I would feel I'm dating a person without an individuality. If a girl likes or luvs a girl it would be just coz of his own individuality and care. Both should be within limits and neither should decrease nor increase too much.If u shower her with too much of gifts and care the whole thing willl turn out to be artificial. This is a human relationship dude!!! Dont try acting like a prince or sumthin.Keep up ur own individuality

Answer 4

Let me just tell you from experience that I had a boyfriend once who was just like you. All my friends were so jealous, but I wasn't that happy after awhile. Sure, it's great to be treated like a princess....OCCASIONALLY! I just got bored with it after awhile. It was not exciting getting presents all the time. I started to feel like the guy didn't know how else to show he cared. Girls need variety. You don't need to treat them like s***, but you don't need to spoil them all the time either. Tone down the gift giving a little and try to find a girl who's not with you just because she knows she can get anything she wants from you. Nice guys shouldn't always have to finish last. They don't deserve it.

Answer 5

Start dating women and not girls. Always leave them wanting and do not always treat them like a princess. Learn how to be a bit of a bad boy too. They always attract the animalistic lust in women. But they are not the ones we want all the time.

Answer 6

I would say that is exactly your problemn you give them everything they want all the time, also there seems to be more that you are not telling us. They wouldn't be leaving you just because you give them everything they want, are you fun to be with, do you have prowling eyes, how do you get on with her mates, does she show respect for you, do you do the same for her, are you hygenic, are you jealous?etc, remember it is everything that a woman thinks about. ps if you can make her laugh then you have half the job done already, oh yes maybe more modesty from you too.

Answer 7

They don't all go for or appreciate a gentleman. Pass the girls looking for bad boys by and don't let them try to change you. Stick to your good upbringing and get the "lady" that you deserve/are holding out for.
Bonus tip: Don't prioritize her looks. Being a 'cute' couple is far less gratifying than being the 'happy/fun' couple in the long run. Good luck.

Answer 8

There are girls (women) out there like me who would love a man like you. Perhaps you should find yourself a real woman. The ones who want guys to pimp them and call them whores are not real women.

Remember not to give Everything up so easily to just any girl either. You want to make sure she is the One for you and not someone who will use you.

Answer 9

i imagine an excellent powerful guy should be smothering. If he's continually getting me flowers, establishing doorways, being very romantic - it will get previous! ladies love flowers, convinced, yet in worry-free words quite shallow ladies desire flowers on each day foundation. it can make us sense helpless if we are no longer allowed to open our personal door or pay for dinner. i'm no longer affirming you should become a jerk, even if that's no longer quite a strong portion of be powerful each and every of the time. prepare us you're human and make blunders, too. supply her your time on my own so she'll opt to be certain you back. purchase flowers (no longer merely on holidays or once you screw up) once you opt to, no longer each and every of the time. do not deliver saccharine textual content messages each and every 5 seconds; enable the girl breathe. they say you may have too a lot of a strong ingredient, and that's authentic. merely tone it down somewhat.

Answer 10

some girls like bad guys. not saying you should become an asshole, maybe your looking at the wrong group of females. maybe you tastes have to change. you need to find a girl who loves what you do for her, but one who will do for you in return. dont give up, theres a girl perfect for you out there...
give me a call ;)