No one understands me, no ones helping me..?

Question

Do you know how it feels to be a loner? I have no social life i dont even have one true friend that i dont have to act like some kind of shy freak infront of. I dont know whats wrong with me, why do i have nothing to talk about? im going to a new school for highschool and i want to be a new person, but im so afriad this is going to skrew up again, i only have 3 days left? should i commit suiside before i have to skrew up my life again?? shyness is a sickness to me, I CANT STAND THIS NO ONE UNDERSTANDS IM A LOST CAUSE IM A LOSER IM TOO MUCH OF A RETARD TO MAKE ANY FRIENDS. MY PARENTS DONT UNDERSTAND ME, THEY ONLY TELL ME THAT I DONT TALK ENOUGH, I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY!!!! NO ONE CARES, NO ONE LIKES ME. WHATS THE POINT OF LIFE?? MAYBE I SHOULD JUST GO AND JUMP OF A FREAKIN BUILDING!!!

Answer 1

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Take Care and God Bless !

Answer 2

It is hard not be with the in crowd but it is not a reason not to live. Life can be wonderful you just have not had a chance to experience it to see it. You may have a condition called low self esteem and social anxiety my son has it. He does exercises like saying high to a new kid in the hall. He talked to his school counselor and now has a way better life. He joined clubs in high school and has made many friends. There is hope especially since you are starting at a new school. Seek the school counselor there is help out there. There is nothing wrong with being shy the less you say the less you can say the wrong thing. Try asking about computer games Internet sites something you are interested in you will find someone who has the same interest if you seek someone. Good luck

Answer 3

It doesn't feel good to be a loner, but only you can change that situation. You need to be proactive and introduce yourself to people. Be friendly. You don't have anything to talk about because you choose what it is you want to talk about. You don't want someone else to think for you. Don't be afraid you are going to "screw up" it is a defeatist attitude. You should not put labels on your character such as "loser and retard" again this is only yourself putting you down. I don't even know you and I care for you and most likely I would like you. Your parents would understand you more if you just tell them you want to talk about your conception of them not understanding you. The point of life is to live it to the fullest. I don't see suicide as a way out I feel it is a way of quitting and letting the world push you over the edge. Get control of your life by living it. To get away from being shy hold your head high and say hello to yourself in the mirror when you pass it. You can even practice talking to people by first talking to the mirror about the subject.

Answer 4

First let me tell you I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL! And I'm NOT just saying that.
When I read your question and everything it was like the story of how my life was a little bit ago in 8th grade. I HATED myself. I thought about killing myself. I had almost no friends. And the few poeple I did talk to now and then I acted so shy infront of and no one knew me because I was shy infront of everyone! Still now a year later I'm still shy around everyone, not as much but I still am and I HATE it. I know what you mean when you say shyness is a sickness. I can't stand it. I felt so left out of everything. I would come home from school and listen to music and cry and everything I felt so retarted. By the way you should listen to Welcome to My Life by Simple Plan, it was like every lyric of that song was my life, you could probably relate to it to & it might help you. Anyways it was the worst year of my life. I guess you could think of you going to a new school as a second chance or something. I don't know, but seriously you don't want to keep living this wothless life do you? When this happened to me it was like I thought I would never get out of it. But then I met this girl who I had been best friends with and it was like my second chance. And I'm so glad that I waited and decided not to go with killing myself because things will always get better, no matter how bad, you will get out of it remember that.Really though I know how you feel. You should deffinatly IM me sometime on AIM, my sn is ashley7382 and we can talk or something because serioulsy everything you said in your question is everything I have been going through.
hope this helps
<3ashley

Answer 5

I was shy when I was in high school too. I understand what you mean by just not knowing what to say. High school is tough enough already. I promise you though it will not be that big of a part of your life once you are an adult and look back on it. I hated high school because of all the clicks and steriotyping. The most important thing to do is to just focus on your school work, graduate, and move on with your life. You will be okay. I eventually grew out of my shyness. You get more comforatable socially I think as an adult. I'm married now with 4 kids, and lots of friends, and am very happy. I was miserable in high school too, but now that I look back on it, I think i should have just focused more on learning and thinking about college than making friends. Most of those kids who give you a hard time will probably be losers as adults...........I've seen it, it;s too funny!! Anyway, take care, and just remember this all will pass one day soon!!

Answer 6

Please don't do that. I don't know you and you don't know me, but i know how you feel. You may have social anxiety disorder. that would explain your shyness around people. suicide is NOT the answer. you are important. you are not a retard. i used to feel the same way you do, and sometimes still do. I don't really have anyone to talk to either. I have no parents. my mom is a drug addict, and my father didn't want to be a father. I was raised by my grandparents, who are both dead now. so it's just me and my dog. Trust me i know what it's like to be alone and to feel that no one understands you. I have always been a quiet person, i'm still quiet. that just means you keep to yourself, and you sit back and absorb things around you, that doesn't make you a freak. Your life is important and meaningful even if you don't see that. You are here for a reason, and you will overcome this. If you want to talk more email me, or IM me. [e-mail]

Answer 7

Suicide is never the correct answer, you should try reading and watching the daily current events on television to learn what people are talking about and what they are interested in. That way you will be able to join in when others are having a conversation. People respect knowledge, and they will look forward to hearing what you have to say. You are definitely NOT a loser, you have only begun to live...there is so much out there for you to experience.
Please understand that someone does care!!! I do not have to know you to care about what happens to you..I just prayed to God that you will be blessed with the ability to join in and make many friends in High School; I suggest that you pray often, as well.

Answer 8

Wow, you could be me, back in high school. Just remind yourself that you are the only person who will ever see life through your eyes. Your perspective is unique. Suicide will erase any options you have. Start a journal, start a blog, like on Yahoo 360, and just talk to yourself about everything that way. You will attract like-minded people. Remember that there are thousands of us freaky types out here, and shyness is like a veil that keeps us from recognizing each other right away. Give school time, give yourself time, you have all the time in the world to figure out your place in it. Feel free to look at my 360 page, you will see what I mean, that we freaks are everywhere. You are definitely not alone.

Answer 9

athrodite, you have some serious "it's all about me" issues.

You remind me of those women who end up subs in the D/s culture, so needing attention that they become dependent and passive, yet in fact call all the shots.

Just your question alone ends in a cap-spelled selfish rant that would scare the hell out of me and insure I'd keep my distance from you.

Do you hate me yet? Still think I don't understand you?

Sigh ... make sure it's very tall building so it's tragic enough.

The only hope for you is to learn to give instead of take. Go volunteer at the Red Cross if you can handle it. It'll change your life.

Answer 10

Do not jump off a building-- the sudden stop hurts like hell.

There are a lot of people in your position and I was one of them. Loner, quiet, never knew what to saw. Still do not. More comfortable writing . I have been married 45 years and went to RN school. I still was quiet but knew all the correct answers. I still have very few Friends but have 6 children and I get along with my neighbors. So just be your self and smile at everyone. Look around and see who else is having the same problems you are and make friends with them. Everyone in high school feels like a dorkie person. So you are quiet. Just get good grades and go on to college with the rest of the quiet dorkie people and you will find yourself way ahead of them all. I never thought to much of it as I had a lot of cousins and cousins have to be friends no matter what. Even my mom died at my birth and my dad died when I was 13. I had a great Aunt who raised me. Although I was very blond and green eyed and she was very mexican. I did not look like I belonged to her but then my mom looked mexican too. You will live through another school year. Just smile a lot say hello to everyone and do not worry if they do not say hello back.