Okay, hypothetically (lol), you talk to your man/woman this morning for awhile when you wake up, and they tell you to call them when you make it to work. When you make it to work you do call them, and they answer and say "I am in a meeting, let me call you back." So you get angry because why tell you to call back in the first place if he/she knew they were going to be in a meeting? ls this reasonable, or ridiculous? lol Just from writing it, I can tell it's ridiculous to let something like this make you angry...especially when it's something they can't really control; after all, it's their job. Love makes you feel some really whacky emotions. Does anyone else get mad at the things you KNOW are not their fault, and not worth getting mad over? I know it's ridiculous, but it happens.
2006-08-31 05:30:58 · 26 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was once sooo pissed at my husband because I had a dream he was lying to me. I was really mad. The dream was so real, when I woke up, I was just like "don't yout touch me". He laughed so hard and it made me madder! I got over it after my shower, but the answer to your question...Yes, it happens!
2006-08-31 05:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBO 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ridiculous.. only women get mad about these things, and even then not all of them. The man has a job to do- most employee's aren't even allowed to make or take personal calls from work, so you should be happy that he is trying to fit it in at all. Not everyone knows when their meetings will start, or it could be a spontaneous thing where another employee or two have come to talk to him about something. Then it is appropriate and professional to say "I'm in a meeting" to a caller, as opposed to "let me call you back, I'm talking to Fred and Johan right now".
2006-08-31 12:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, the whole scenario becomes ridiculous when yes, u get upset when u call him and he's in a meeting. U must be in the honeymoon stage of your relationship because if u were with him for a while, u will just shrug your shoulder , hang up...and then decide if u will turn ur cell off or put it to vibrate.(for more fun). Patience in relationship goes a long long way. Pettiness....source of useless arguments.....and a waste of emotion.
2006-08-31 12:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ridiculous
2006-08-31 12:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on peoples' characters. I am a very impatient person so i would get mad, maybe not show my feelings but i would still be mad. But these things go away over time, i mean you cant stay mad at the person forever, and the meeting was probably something that came up at the last minute.
2006-08-31 12:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by aless. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you know this is ridiculous, but have you ever wondered what might be behind the frustration and anger? do you notice yourself getting mad about other things, like if the phone call was too short, or if he didnt say i love you the right way? i used to do this a whole lot. i've noticed that it mainly draws from me wanting him to be there at all times, being submissive to every need and want. this is something you need to let go to have a successful relationship. also, you may be expecting him to be someone he is not. everyone does silly things like telling you to call when they are unavailable. so if he does, accept his faults. he obiviously cares about you alot if he wants to hear from you alot.
2006-08-31 12:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by lizmachain7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time to everyone, and if someone says it doesn't they are LYING to you...lol
It's one of those unmentioned perks we love so much that comes with being in a committed relationship and it is also due to the fact men and women think act and react differently!!!! It's that aspect that makes life worth living!!! let's face it, If we didn't fight over petty stupid crap there would be no need for make-up sex. And let's face it we all love that!!!!
2006-08-31 12:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get upset with the situation, but not the person. it is out of their control. i just try to be understanding. besides getting mad will not solve anything.
this type of thing happens to me all the time with my husband so i can relate.
Love is a many slendor thing (lol). It makes you feel all kinds of crazy ways. Reflect back and check your reactions vs. how u feel now. If you did not love one another there would be no emotion at all.
Good luck and take things with a grain of salt.
2006-08-31 12:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by caspersweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ridiculous and yes it happens. My husband would say call me on my cell during your lunch. If the phone was busy or he didn't answer I would get so mad. He would say he was busy with customers (he owned his own construction company). I would say OK then I won't call you. I was really pout about it. It is so embarrassing but I did it.
2006-08-31 12:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did not know that he would be in a meeting. He said that he would call you back and if he doesn't, the you should be a little angry.
2006-08-31 12:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋