well im had been seeing a guy or about 1 week..We never had sex, but he did give me oral alot. A few days later he told me that he was going to iraq. I was ok with that i asked him would we still talk while he was over ther he says," i dont know, i was told that we may not have internet or phone lines". We were supposed to meet up one night and he called and said he wasnt feeling well. I knew that he had been out drinking so i left him alone,i checked on him. 3 days later i was online and i saw his name showing that he was also online..So i was like hi. Whoever it was was said,"I need u, I miss u, Lets get a room tonight". But i had to work they said ok its my lost. But call me. When i called his phone i got no answer, i knew that was strange so i text messaged him,he said that he hadnt been on his home all day and that he has a g/f she doesnt live here but she was mad about us.Well right now he's out of state, he hasnt been online or taked to me.I pray that he does b4 he go to war.
2006-08-31 05:23:59 · 25 answers · asked by ktowndeedee254 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ditch him
2006-08-31 05:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many men that there are out there, this guy sounds like a loser.. I would defently find another, but if this guy is who you want... then play the I don't care, I am not interested type, the less attention you give someone the more attention they give you. Its a real mindgame but works 99% of the time, Men are like children they never know what or who they want, but you also have to consider the new g.f in the picture if you were her, would like it very much if some other woman was trying for your man, don't forget the common law what goes around comes around.... SO remember play nice and think everything through... before you act upon anything ok, good luck.
2006-08-31 05:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. If you were in Chicago I would wonder if you were talking about this guy I know, but anyway...I went through this wwith a guy, but he claimed he was single and had to do the whole overseas thing. I found out he was a big liar. He got out the army recently and when he did I found out he was married. He said he had never been married. His wife emailed me and called. They have a shild together, but I also found out he has a nother kid outside the marriage that had to be concieved when we were messing around. But I didn't think ths guy would be a liar, because I actually knew him since I was about 6-7 years old and we're 30 now.
Your guy seems to be on the same liar lines. I would just let it go, before your feelings get anymore involved.
2006-08-31 05:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange things happen. By the way, Oral Sex is Sex.
2006-08-31 05:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by EW 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sounding like he gave you a brush off, without giving you the brushoff. Chuck it up to experience, some guys are idiots. And work on being not so clingy, it's a turn off.
2006-08-31 05:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a gf and you are seeing him???? You want to see him before he leaves? why? he has a gf! Ditch him and find yourself a more meaningful relationship, one where YOU are the entree not a side dish.
2006-08-31 05:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Peachz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have gotten yourself into this situation, but now that you are move on, get over him, anybody deserves better than that. email him good bye that will be talking to him before war.
2006-08-31 05:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got some free time downstairs don't knock it.
It's over, move on you clingy thingy.
2006-08-31 05:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-08-31 05:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be a delicate situation.
For the Best Advice I Would Go And See Your Local catholic Of Christian Priest or Minister.
HOPE THIS HELPS
2006-08-31 05:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is playing you. 4get him girl and move on with your life. he aint worth in. by the way did you know he had a girl?
2006-08-31 05:29:33 · answer #11 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋