2006-08-31 05:22:49 · 26 answers · asked by Ali L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never, I couldn't imagine being with anybody else, I would just be happy with my kids.
2006-08-31 05:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband once told me that I am his one and only wife. That whether I die or if soemting were to happen and we were to divorce he owuld never get married again because he married the only person he ever truley loved. I feel the same way. I am his wife. He is my first love and my only love and I will never take that away from him. I will carry his last name till the day I die. I couldn't imagine doing that because I believe that he would be in heaven watching over me and protecting me. But this is a subject that everyone has to do what they feel is right. When a person is in this situation all I can say is listen to your heart and do what you think is best. There is no specific time....
2006-08-31 12:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society says one year, but exceptions might include your husband having a long illness in which you cared for him or something like that. It really it up to the individual. Resuming dating can be a hard thing after years of marriage. Do NOT rush into anything. You will regret it if you do (especially a physical relationship---the guilt is overwhelming).
2006-08-31 12:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think spending some time with a person and communicating is not really a date: just a good friend to vent with. Start there if the opportunity presents itself. A date will follow when you're ready.
2006-08-31 12:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband passed away almost 4 years ago after 30 years of marriage. I have not dated because I have not met anyone I would want to date. Most men in their 50's want to date women in their 30's. Or they expect sex right away.
2006-08-31 19:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to you. Only you will know when the time is right. No one can answer that question for you sweetheart. Take your time. Maybe enjoy you for a while. Who knows, you may not ever feel like dating again or you might...Good luck and remember, it's your choice.
2006-08-31 12:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a time limit. Even If you were so deeply in love with your husband it may take years or it may take months. Depending on if the right man comes along.
2006-08-31 12:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready. Everyone is different. Also it would depend on who all your dating will affect. if you have children take them into consideration. I personally would just have to wait and see how soon I felt good about dating. Good Luck!
2006-08-31 12:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i ever could, my husband is my everything and i could never feel right about being with another man...i know i would never marry again..but hey people are different and if u feel like it u shud date whenever u meet a good person.
2006-08-31 12:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It deepens id u had kids or not ,if kids are gone from home and just u and u are still able to get out and have fun me be a month he's not gone he all around us and he would want u to be happy
2006-08-31 12:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel comfortable. If there are children under age 18 in this situation, then talk it over with them. Older ones need to butt out, you are old enough to make your own decisions.
2006-08-31 12:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋