she is really upset now, and is letting me make it up to her tonight. we have been on and off for the past 2 months, i love her. any ideas on what i should do tonight, to help make things better? she doesnt want a sorry card and flowers. and also, is she overreacting?
2006-08-31 05:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by yeahyeah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is really upset now, and is letting me make it up to her tonight. we have been on and off for the past 2 months, i love her. any ideas on what i should do tonight, to help make things better? she doesnt want a sorry card and flowers. and also, is she overreacting? i have also been talking to her sister, and she is giving me help with this. i am dropping off flowers and an i love you letter, to her work now, and later on i am making her dinner. what else can i do?
2006-08-31 05:30:41 · update #1
She isn't over reacting in her world the year aniversary is important. You need to think carefully and plan something special for her, show that you care and have though about as many details about the occasion as possible.
In addition plan something special for a few days in advance like the weekend and let her know about it if you don't have time to plan something REALLY special tonight.
Whatever you do try and make it show that you have thought about her tonight in as many ways as possible.
2006-08-31 05:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA maybe she is a little but its hard for both people when its on and off in a long term relationship. It hurts because it was kind of a "sign" to her that you didnt care since you didnt still try to celebrate the one year mark. Take her to dinner, take her to a movie or to do something you two really like. Get a hotel room even just for tonight and go to dinner then go back and kick back in the hot tub talk to her put away both your phones for the night so its just you two. just do the little things that say i love you and i want us to work.
2006-08-31 05:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year is a big deal to most. So you screwed up big time. But at least you want to make it up to her, if she refuses to understand and get over it then maybe you should re think this threw. She might not be worth it if she is that petty and can not forgive.
Try making her dinner, set the table fancy, candles all over, dessert, something that you two can eat together , feed each other, fingers foods to make it more sexy. Buy her a nice negligee, have rose petals along the floor...you get the picture
2006-08-31 05:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 03:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think she is overreacting... but then again, if you guys have been on and off for the past while, maybe she just wanted a reminder that you still really do love her and want to be with her, and was hurt when you forgot.
You obviously know her well enough to know what she likes... why not make her dinner, whatever is her favourite... get a bunch of rose pettals... scatter them on the floor from the front door, to the bath tub, and have a hot realaxing candle lit bath waiting for her....
2006-08-31 05:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be slightly overreacting, but if you love her and want to make things better then don't even make any mention of it. As far as making it up to her just make the night all about her. Her favorite restaurant, activity whatever. Just be sure that she'll love it, even if you won't.
2006-08-31 05:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be romantic. Go out to dinner or even better, cook her a nice meal with dessert and do something fun afterwards like mini-golf, bowling, or something.
It probably hurt her feelings that you didn't get her anything. She probably thinks that you don't love her enough to go out of your way to get a present or do something nice. It's her feelings, she's allowed to feel how she wants. Just be empathetic and things will blow over.
2006-08-31 05:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she isnt overreacting... what you should do is get her a unique, huge bunch of flowers.. with an i love u card.. cook for her or take her out somewhere really elite.. and do something that she loves doing, but which you don't necessarily enjoy (and that she knows it).. and yeah, make sure u say you aren't doing this to cheer her up... it's coz u wanna show her what she means to u
trust me.. she'll melt
2006-08-31 05:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter from your heart and buy a pair of silver/gold/white gold rings (matching) and give her one, wear the other one (if you don't wanna wear it as a ring- put it on a chain or something.) Then take her out to fancy dinner.
My boyfriend did this for me on our 9th month and I was SO touched.
2006-08-31 05:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by vodkastars♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats on gett ing back 2gether. make a whole evening/night out of it.
2006-08-31 05:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋