how can u dump your boyfriend and still be friends?

Question

how can u dump your boyfriend without hurting his feelings, and still continue to be JUST FRIENDS?

Answer 1

Tell him his penis is too small and he will find someone who appreciates it.. and that you still want to be friends, just nothing that involves activity with his little John.

Answer 2

I'm still friends with all my X's. Including my X husband. I think that if you have been honest about your relationship all the way thru and they know who you are and what you want out of life than they really cant be mad or hate you for doing what you have to do to be happy.Usually they can respect that. Depends on the guy I guess. I have always picked men that I can communicate well with, but then for one reason or another needed to move on. I never had a boyfriend break-up with me so I don't know if I could be friends with someone that broke up with me. I think I would try to if I valued them as a person. Good luck, you have to be happy. If you end up friends great...if not, you'll be o.k,

Answer 3

Good luck with that...

It's really up to you whether you want to or not. As for me, I would never be friends with an ex, even if they are the father of my child. There will be so much history, so many feelings towards eachother, even if they are negative feelings. Being as how I am a jealous ex girlfriend, it wouldn't be a good idea... I wouldn't be able to stand watching my ex be with another woman. Even if the break up was my idea. Call me selfish if you will...

Answer 4

Well, there is not easy way really. If it were me, I would get him in a quiet place and first tell him all the things you enjoy about him...start with positive words. Then gently explain to him why you do not feel the relationship is working for you. Good luck!

Answer 5

That's a lil tuff because if he really feels for you then there is no easy way to do that. He will see you as the bad girlfriend who broke his heart. The only other way i can see you guys savoring it is if the feelings were mutual and that afterwards you were what you said " just friends".

Answer 6

It would depend on why your dumping your boyfriend, and why would you want to continue being friends!!

Answer 7

takes a lot of care not to hurt someones feelings when you dump them. it's very hard to be friends,unless you were close friends to start..

Answer 8

this something we all want, but it never works out, even with ex , bf or hubbys. my bf told me if we ever, decided it, snot working,he could not be friends with me, becuse you love the person more it,s to hard to be friends, plus it can cause troubles if there new love in , that might happen.in one your lifes. it ,s best move on and cry and heal. thats why some people , just dont want hurt any one to tell them it over, by slowly, not calling or trying cause more fights ect, then tell then you it over.

Answer 9

well it is all gonna depend on how you dump him. if you dump him in a messed up way or because your gonna leave him for someone else. then thats pretty messed up. but if not i dont see why he wouldnt want to stay friends with you.

Answer 10

every break up is hurt dear..to make it less hurt..is by healing it throughout the time..and to be friends..its even longer..so whatever it is..u have to really patient..anyway..theres a lot of guys out there wanna be ur friends~

Answer 11

LOOK CAN YOU ASK YOUR SELF WHY ARE YOU DOING IT? OFF COZ HE CHITS/YOU ARE JUST NO LONGER IN THE MOOD TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP,U FOUND A NEW GUY END OF STORY.TRY MAKING HIM UNDERSTAND UR REASONS THEN TELL HIM DAT U STILL LOVE HIM TO BE UR FRIEND UN TILL THING ARE SORTED OUT.