2006-08-31 05:15:40 · 16 answers · asked by stacia n 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
he still wanted me to do drugs what should i do or what should i have done
2006-08-31 05:21:42 · update #1
when we first got topgether he was not on drugs he was a susseful hard working man and he had some problems and turned there with him but when i found out i was pregnate i stop altogether and he still wanted to continue to do the drugs
2006-08-31 06:43:14 · update #2
And it's a sad thing to here! At least you stopped right? Depending on how far along you are and what kinda drugs you were doing, depends on if or how much damage you have done to your unborn child. It's very important that you tell you doctor of the drugs, don't be ashamed to tell him he hears it more than you think. If you want to do what is right for your child you need to take care of yourself while your pregnant and after too. Everyone makes bad choices on some level in life now you have to choose to do right and that includes with the baby's father. If he will not stop the drugs then you need to distance yourself, for the good of you both
Good luck and God bless
2006-08-31 05:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stacia Stacia what are you thinking my girl. Get out and run. That child will be the only thing you ever have in your life that is yours. What the hell are you doing. Get away from the drug infested boy. Why are you taking drugs? If you don't want the child because you want to be with him give the child to me. Depending on the drug and how it was taken will determine the effect on the baby. Don't think it is easy. I have seen baby's that are drug addicts. Man you will run away. Go back to mom or who ever but any one that takes drugs near a pregnant women should be shot. Good luck my friend.
2006-08-31 05:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...a friend of mine kicked heroin when she got pregnant. Narcotics Anon. And then her husband did too. They have been clean for over 15 years and have a lovely child and family life. It is possible to stop the cycle...and actually enjoy a clean life. If he can't get clean, leave. Tell him that under no circumstances will he be able to participate as a father until he is clean. Find an addict support group in your area. You don't want to raise a baby that was exposed to drugs, believe me, I've worked with crack babies...Pull yourself together, and do it for your child if you can't do it for yourself. Good luck.
2006-08-31 05:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having babies with a drug addict. Leave the #@$@#. I'd give him once change to sign up for treatment and that's it... no exceptions, no nothing.
Drugs bring in the wrong element to the home. He wont hold down jobs. He'll make friends with the wrong crowd. If he gets hooked, he'll empty out your bank account. If he ticks off his connections they may break into your home, tear up your stuff, or threaten to hurt him or you.
PLEASE for the baby's sake, get out of this destructive relationship and away from this person.
2006-08-31 05:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Funchy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And now you know your pregnant? Well there is nothing you can do about it now. But what kind of drug was it? You should definatly tell your doctor. Don't be afraid of what they will say this is your child at stake here. Just tell them what kind of drug you took, when you took it, and how much you took. The doctor will know of any possible birth defects or results of what you took. Just be 100% honest with your doctor and he will be able to help you out.
2006-08-31 05:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by seths_hot_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the father of your baby is still on drugs, I would tell him to get help or he not going to see his child until then. And by the way were you nuts to be on drugs when your pregnant?
2006-08-31 05:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u guys should actually have an abortion. because that baby is really going to suffer if you have the baby. i do think you guys should get off the drugs and maybe try again. if you do decide to have the baby ask the doctor if he has any dieses that are known right nowl.
i wish u guys the best, good luck
2006-08-31 05:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by williamt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get away from him if he won't get off drugs.
But, also get counseling to find out why in H**l you got pregnant by a druggie.
You are at this time a real loser, but you can take control of your life and do better. Do NOT blame him for all your problems. The first step for any loser is to admit to yourself you are a loser, then work at getting better for the sake of your child. In our society, women who change their lives are allowed to put it behind them.
2006-08-31 05:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks to be your baby b/c you made ALOT of serious mistakes!!!!! but thanks for the two pts!
ps i think you should have the baby and then you won't have time or money to spend on bad things!!!! ha ha
you have gotten what you deserve and i think the only pitty you'll recive won't be for you but for your baby ha ha
ha ha ha
2006-08-31 05:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you asking? its not fair to the child. u both need to go to rehab for that baby
2006-08-31 05:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋