My ex and I brokeup and now he is crawling back to his ex and telling her lies and she is my friend. And he is playing the same games with her like he did with me like oh Steph ment nothing to me.And when him and I were still together he said oh Sara ment nothing to me. Well if he is trying to get back at me does that mean he still likes me?
2006-08-31 04:57:25 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he does not care.
You should do it like how the movies do it. You will quarrel with Sara, get upset about your ex, seek help and eventually get Sara to cooperate to plot against your ex. He then will suffer as the both of you will realise how imporant friendship is and no man shall come between the both of you. From then, the both of you will become the best of friends while your ex will continue to suffer because of his lying ways.
2006-08-31 05:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Are you nuts or something? Men...ok people, have patterns of behaviour. He is simply displaying the same pattern he used with you and will continue to use with every female he will ever know. If something works....they keep doing it. It has very little to do with real feelings and all about what works.
His repertoire is a little outdated and boring...thats all. He hasnt learned any new tactics yet. He might in a few years.......so be on the look out then for new stuff, as it might be more entertaining than his old stuff. He cares about himself...HIS comfortzone and you have nothing to do with it right now because you make him feel uncomfortable...as he should be with such a crappy brain.
You can do way better....just look for clues of patterns in the future. Get the guys with the best ones so they wont be too boring or bleeding obvious.
2006-08-31 12:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah. um...
My ex wife continued thru divorce, and after, for 6+ years using the legal system in attempts to get my stuff, money, children (I had custody of my daughter), etc. after divorce. Upon learning more of my life's story than I told here, a woman that I though was my friend said to me, "You should be happy that she still wants all of your stuff, that means she still loves you."
After 20+ yrs of marriage and then 5+ years after divorce, + 5 more years since that statement happened...
I've learned to leave people like that to themselves instead of waiting for them to leave me!!!!!!
So, what is your question? ...Somin' about you liking drama?
2006-08-31 12:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe nothing of the sort, he's just cunning and know how to get you to trust him.
guys like that always act hurt and victims to get you to feel sorry for them. Then you'd want to be friendly and caring and BOOM you're hooked like a fish and you'll dance to his tune
2006-08-31 12:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Vaness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but if he's bad mouthing you i highly doubt he's trying to get back with you much less like you. I understand that when you break up with your significant other it's hard to deal with and it never excuses him/her saying that you never anything to them. Get over him and find someone new. If he truly does still like you then it will kill him to see you with someone else. Good luck gurly!
2006-08-31 12:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he cares about you or not, he's a manipulator of women. He will continue ot play with your emotions and your mind as long as you allow it.
2006-08-31 12:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋