He's really getting on knees.Sometimes i get him stuff but now he's getting on my nerves becoz he's never got me anything. Pliz help!!
2006-08-31 04:49:21 · 17 answers · asked by Ajay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a user. Dump him.
2006-08-31 04:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is stop what your doing for him right now. You have to already know this guy is using you for what he can get out of you. If he's never bought you anything then why are you still buying him things? So what if he gets on his knees, he's pathetic and you should laugh right in his face when he does this. Why havn't you spoken up to him about this? You should tell him that your tired of spending your money on him and he's never did anything for you with his own money. If he has a problem with this then you should really consider leaving him. Even if he got you some roses with a teddy bear or something, that's still money he would have spent. Don't let this continue for too long, if he still acts this way after a while dump him. It's should never be about money and gifts in a relationship, but it doesn't hurt when two people are doing just as much for each other.
2006-08-31 12:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have been dating for quite some time and he has never gotten you anything, then he is probably using you since you never tell him no on getting him stuff, he probably figures that he can get away with it... And if you have been dating for a short amount of time and he is doing this, he is still using you. Sorry. Most guys who realy like you end up getting you (the girl) the first gift. I talked to my b/f about this, he said that it makes a guy feel all mocho when he buys the first gift. Hope this helps.
2006-08-31 11:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. If he's older then you then you should know that some guys have a saying "the younger the dumber" . In the end he's going to make you look stupid and if you two breakup you'll look back and feel horrible about buying him things when you could've spent that money on yourself.
2006-08-31 11:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about giving and taking. Obviously he is using you. If he isn't willing to contribute anything, then dump his ***! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Too many for you to waste your time on this loser.
2006-08-31 11:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this guy not have a job, and does he get YOU stuff? Sounds like a user to me.
2006-08-31 11:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you babygirl, you got him that stuf the first time and now he's a blood sucker. Cut him off and don't give in. Put your foot and if he doesn't like it leave his sorry ***.
2006-08-31 11:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck is wrong with men those days? it will be hard for me to ask a girl to get me anything, i feel something in my manlyhood is missing.
next time he asks you to get him something, use his credit card.
2006-08-31 11:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the ultimate accessory like your purse. You are there and can carry things.
2006-08-31 11:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl u need to put ur foot down... and let him know waz up.
2006-08-31 11:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋