I thinks he is cheating because him and his friend live in a hotel room and one day i called a girl picked up i asked her could she put him on the phone, she gave him the phone. We talked and i told him i loved him he didn't say it back but he said he did so i said it again he sais it low. I called the next day and she picked up i asked him who she was he said that's his homgurl i called on day his homboy said he was sleep and he didn't wanna wake him up! i hung up! His homboy has a baby mama and a girl frien cause i was over their one day he brought his baby mama one time then about 3 hours later he brought the other girl so i feel he is cheating. It really hurt what should i do he say i accuse him so much.
2006-08-31 04:39:54 · 24 answers · asked by Takemia W 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Leave him
2006-08-31 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know what girl, more than likely, if you feel he is cheating, then most likely HE IS! I had to learn this the hard way. But from the situation you just described, I would have to say he is for sure cheating. He hangs out with a guy who has a baby momma and a g/f, what would make you think he's not doing the same. Anyways why would you want to be with someone who stays in a hotel room with a friend and where there are occasionally "homegirls" of his stopping by. Has he actually introduced you to this "homegirl"? What makes you think she's not taking more friends over to kick it? I would say get rid of him before this gets any worse. I dont know how long you guys have been together, but this sounds like trouble to me!
2006-08-31 04:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he over there without you in the first place? Is there a special reason? Sounds like cheating to me. I would just ask him to not hang out with other girls alone right now because you feel that you are not in a point of the relationship where you can trust him with doing that. You must be willing to do the same, no hanging out with guys alone. It's fair.
If he gets too upset, defensive, or refuses, leave him.
2006-08-31 04:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really feel that it is time for you to end up this relationship.or Just try to enquire about the girl even without him knowing and then speak to him and then end it.I know that it would hurt you very badly but you cant help dear guys are like that they are never satisfied with one they want more and more and more.Im not telling that all the boys are like that but majority.just think about your future life with such a kind of a person you will automatically feel that i have to end it now.
2006-08-31 05:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really this is going to be YOUR choice. YOU should decide what is acceptable in your relationships and what is unacceptable. Once you are firm about your expectations and what you are willing to go for. See if you man fits that criteria. If he does, keep him. If he does not, let him go. Your heart and emotional well being is at stake. If you decide to leave make sure you wont be looking back.
Hope this helps
2006-08-31 04:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by stazyr2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him.He doesn't deserve your love.Look for someone whom you can trust with your life ,no matter what.Faith and trust is the base for any relationship.Your love wont succeed if he's trying to be unfaithful to you.
They are more fishes in the ocean.
2006-08-31 04:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather up whatever self-esteem you have, walk away, and don't look back. Don't take his calls. Don't call him. Another bus is coming, sister, and you want to be available to get on board! This one's a loser, a player, and he doesn't respect you. So, do yourself some respect and don't settle for him! You deserve better!
2006-08-31 04:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit and talked it out, if he still refuses or tries to turn it against you again then drop off his sorry *** on the closest corner from hell.
2006-08-31 04:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats messed up. Your boy is definately doing somethin'!!! Especially if he doesn't want to say I love you back and is tryin to hide it. I'd leave him! No questions asked!
2006-08-31 04:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by peachez082 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well! get your ears checked first. If you are sure she was a girl than kick your husband in the ***
2006-09-01 00:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysforu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Investigate properly before taking any decisions...
take your time...
If you find its true that he was cheating you.. then you cheat and leave him.. or just leave him...
cheaters deserve to be punished..
2006-08-31 05:07:05 · answer #11 · answered by Jin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋