My ex wanted me to have sex with him& he was moving way too fast for me! And the bad part is we're 13 years old? Why would he be that stupid?
2006-08-31 04:35:50 · 17 answers · asked by MCR Roxxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm glad that you're so smart and didn't do it. Well done.
2006-08-31 04:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys aren't stupid.... well... ha-ha... ok some of us are. But "stupid" isn't the problem. It's the testosterone...and the aggresive nature that guys have that makes us want to push the envelope faster and quicker. Guys are basically taught at an early age by other guys that its cool to have sex...get blowjobs... and have control over women. Thats the way it is for us. My advice is this.... stick to your guns....dont give in to jerks like this..and wait a few more years. I'm not one to preach about "saving yourself", but I will say this. Make sure the first person you sleep with... will DEFINITELY be someone that you can look back on and smile about. REALLY THINK about it... you will remember it for the rest of your life..and if you have sex with some "cute boy" from your school...but he's a jerk... you may end up kicking yourself later in life. Maybe you wont? Just a thought. Good luck.
2006-08-31 05:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because boys are stupid. He might also be horny or feel like the guys around him are doing it so he should too. Maybe he thought you are the type of person that would be pressured into it, don't give him that impression.
He should respect you and respect your wishes. Many people are going to say this so be prepared - you are too young. I feel that you already know that. Be smart and do it when you are good and ready, that could be 2 years from now or it could be 10 years from now.
2006-08-31 04:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 years old and you already had an ex?! Ha, ha, ha. Why is it that I don't believe you are 13 years old...
Let's suppose you are a big girl (legal age in other words).
Well, as a guy let me tell you that you should lose your boyfriend - he is only looking for sex. Move on to a guy who really cares about you.
2006-08-31 04:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all that stupid. Once boys hit a certain age, thats it, sex is on the mind and sex is what they want. You did the right thing by turning him into an ex, sex is nothing to play with and he is being a real idiot........... his parents should talk with him and let him know all that he doesn't know. I am proud of you for not going there, that is really cool and shows alot of self respect for yourself. Blessed be........... and stay sex free!!!
2006-08-31 04:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 year olds are pretty stupid in general. But boys are always into the girls. Don't let it surprise you.
2006-08-31 04:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is easy! He has a dick, it is like having another brain. Only this one is dumb, all it want's is to feel good. So in order to do that it want's sex. Oh and 13 is way to young!
2006-08-31 04:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the little bugger is more horny than stupid, but you are right he is stupid as well....13 is not an age to be considering sex
2006-08-31 04:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahem, your little boy is going thru something called PUBERTY. He's not thinking with the right head, I went thru many many b.fs at your age because I didn't give it up to them. Don't worry about him, let him go and make his mistakes and you go and make the right decisions.
2006-08-31 04:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, we usually are creatures who want to get things done and get them done quickly the first time. He is a guy, we are all stupid, get over it.
2006-08-31 04:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chase H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please please please dont let him pressure you. you will regret it forever. you are too young, and so is he. i promise you that in ten years from now, you will look back on this kid, and will know he had no respect for you. i remember when i thought i was in love with my boyfriend in high school, i thought i would have his kids and all that, he was all that mattered, but i have had several boyfriends since then and a few husbands, so-dont let his hormones or your thought of love help you make a BIG mistake
2006-08-31 04:41:07 · answer #11 · answered by insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋