how do i tell my boyfriend that i love with all my heart that i might have breast cancer?
2006-08-31 04:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him sweety. Tell him how you truly feel.
And be honest about the breast cancer. I think that if he loves you he would want to help you through this problem.
He deserves to know both. And you owe it to your self.
I really hope that you find out that you don't have breast cancer. But if it does turn out to be true be confident that you can beat it.
Don't let your self shut down and think the worse. Try to think positive thoughts. I know that you will be really scared if it turns out to be true. But please try to give it all you got keep faith. It can be cured.
And if it is true then you need all the friends and loved ones around you that you can get to help make your battle stronger. You need all the positive motivation you can get.
It can be beatened. My great grandma had breast cancer at 70 and she lived to be 95 and cancer free.
So think positive. Tell your boyfriend everthing. He will understand and he will thank you for it. I bet that he is gonna tell you that he loves you right back.
Anyway good luck and I hope that you will write back and tell us all how things turn out for you.
2006-08-31 04:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by rockn75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, just make sure that you have it or not and that will save a lot of heart ache. Then if you find out that you do have it (I hope for your sake you don't) just get him alone and tell him that you two need to havea serious talk. Tell him that you love him very much and hope he loves you even more. And explain to him what is going on. Tell him it would help you so much more if you were in this together and that you hope he will stick by your side through the end. If he doesn't take it well, tell him that you understand that he is upset and that you will give him some time to think about all this since it is a lot to take in, in one day. But tell him that his support in this would mean so much too and that if he does need time, that it is fine, but you hope he will tell you how he feels very soon. I wish you the best and GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-31 04:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you will probably have to tell him sooner or later, the best thing is to tell him now. And if he loves you with all your heart too, then he will stay on your side, and then it will be easier (for both of you, eventually) to cope with and overcome it.
2006-08-31 04:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down with him alone and tell him straight up. don't be affraid to tell him. he needs to know and if he really cares about u then he will be behind u through this whole thing. its going to be a scary time for u both and it is good to hold each other. he will need to help u and u the same with him. its going to be hard for each of u. i hope your not diagnosed with it and its just nothing. good luck with everything. and don't give up.
2006-08-31 04:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him flat out. No leading up to it, no skirting the edge of the topic. If you tell him falt out, then it will hurt you both a lot less.
2006-08-31 04:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chase H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it checked out first if you do have it, then tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy, and if he loves you he'll stick with you through it.
2006-08-31 04:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by lady_buss_54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. My wife told me that six years ago and had to have it removed. They reconstructed one for her and she is as beautiful as ever.
2006-08-31 06:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might? Shouldn't you get this checked with your doctor first?
2006-08-31 04:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie29UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the truth. If he loves you he'll be with you through it all. Good Luck!!
2006-08-31 04:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him; he can (hopefully) help you through this difficult time.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-31 04:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋